IT'S A SMALL WORLD AFTERALL all you can do is just get a divorce because if you have kids together they can have birth issues and that is not fair to the child
On Aug 29, 2:12 pm, Tiff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > This is the craziest thing I have ever heard of. That's why you have > to ask questions. For them to be together for that long and neither > one of them mention their fathers is strange to me. Damn she was > suckin n fuckin her brother. > > On Aug 29, 1:29 pm, "MS. SHAN" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > > It's easier said than done. Of course, I would let it go and not sleep > > back with him. But, I would be tramautized for life. Why didn't they > > both no at least there father's name.. The mother's should be held > > accountable. It's not there fault. They should not be embarrassed at > > all. Luckily no kids were involved.. > > > On Aug 29, 1:21 pm, Meko <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > That last statement had to be the dumbest question I've eva heard- Now > > > if she never knew (found out) then thats different - but she knows- > > > and should have ended it- as soon as she woke up (LOL) > > > > On Aug 29, 9:19 am, "MS. SHAN" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > > Good Morning Steve and the Morning show family, I actually > > > > > > do not know > > > > > where to start with my letter. I guess I will start will > > > > > saying I have > > > > > been in tears everyday for the last 4 months. I guess I > > > > > will also start > > > > > by giving you a little history. First of all, my husband > > > > > and I have been > > > > > married for almost 2 years. We met in college when I was a > > > > > freshman and > > > > > he was a junior. When we met, we realized we had a lot in > > > > > common. We > > > > > both grew up in the same city just on different sides of > > > > > town. So we > > > > > didn't know each other.We were raised by strong single > > > > > black women that > > > > > made sure we had the best, we were raised in the church, > > > > > and we both > > > > > wanted to get legal degrees. We got married shortly after I > > > > > graduated > > > > > college and we relocated to Chicago in hopes of attending > > > > > law school. > > > > > When we got to Chicago, I became a nurse instead and my > > > > > husband got a > > > > > position at a legal firm (long story short, we didn't > > > > > make it to law > > > > > school). We both are devout Christians and we have been for > > > > > most of our > > > > > life. We decided that in order to really move forward in > > > > > our spiritual > > > > > life, that we needed to forgive all the people we had > > > > > problems with > > > > > including our fathers. We didn't realize how much that > > > > > unforgiveness > > > > > impacted our own lives. I made it a point to forgive my > > > > > father in my > > > > > heart because I knew it would be difficult to find him. My > > > > > husband, > > > > > however, got in touch with his father and made arrangements > > > > > to meet up > > > > > with him when we went home for our family reunion. They > > > > > decided to meet > > > > > up at the park where the reunion was to be held because > > > > > they felt that > > > > > was a neutral spot. We went home for the family reunion in > > > > > May.. To my > > > > > surprise, my father was there. Even though I hadn't > > > > > seen him in almost > > > > > 16 yrs, I knew it was him. I remembered the goal me and my > > > > > husband had > > > > > set for ourselves so I agreed to go somewhere and talk with > > > > > him as long > > > > > as we remained in the park. After about 45 minutes of > > > > > catching up, I > > > > > finally asked him what he was doing at the park on that day > > > > > of all days. > > > > > He mentioned that he was there to meet someone special in > > > > > his life. I > > > > > figured it was probably just another women. Just then, my > > > > > husband walked > > > > > up and said, I see you met my father. At that point, I did > > > > > pass out > > > > > (literally). I woke up in the hospital a couple of hours > > > > > later. After a > > > > > week, my husband went back to Chicago. I remained in our > > > > > hometown with > > > > > my mother. I was not ready to face all the issues on my > > > > > plate and I > > > > > couldn't just go back to Chicago with my > > > > > husband/brother. After 3 mons, > > > > > I am absolutely confused about what to do. Even though we > > > > > have only been > > > > > married for 2 years, we have been together for almost 5. I > > > > > can't imagine > > > > > my life without him. However, I get sick to my stomach when > > > > > I think > > > > > about the fact that I have been sleeping with my brother > > > > > for so long. I > > > > > know deep down it isn't really our fault. I mean we did > > > > > everything > > > > > right. I know the obvious thing to do is divorce him. But > > > > > that is easier > > > > > said than done. I am not torn between divorce and my > > > > > religious beliefs > > > > > because we got married under false pretenses. My problem > > > > > is, I am torn > > > > > between doing the obvious thing and dealing with all these > > > > > emotions at > > > > > the same time. Please tell me what to do. I don't think > > > > > I have anymore > > > > > tears left to cry. > > > > > WHAT WOUL- Hide quoted text - > > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "FLOWITME.BLOG" group. 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