This is the craziest thing I have ever heard of. That's why you have to ask questions. For them to be together for that long and neither one of them mention their fathers is strange to me. Damn she was suckin n fuckin her brother.
On Aug 29, 1:29 pm, "MS. SHAN" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > It's easier said than done. Of course, I would let it go and not sleep > back with him. But, I would be tramautized for life. Why didn't they > both no at least there father's name.. The mother's should be held > accountable. It's not there fault. They should not be embarrassed at > all. Luckily no kids were involved.. > > On Aug 29, 1:21 pm, Meko <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > > That last statement had to be the dumbest question I've eva heard- Now > > if she never knew (found out) then thats different - but she knows- > > and should have ended it- as soon as she woke up (LOL) > > > On Aug 29, 9:19 am, "MS. SHAN" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > Good Morning Steve and the Morning show family, I actually > > > > > do not know > > > > where to start with my letter. I guess I will start will > > > > saying I have > > > > been in tears everyday for the last 4 months. I guess I > > > > will also start > > > > by giving you a little history. First of all, my husband > > > > and I have been > > > > married for almost 2 years. We met in college when I was a > > > > freshman and > > > > he was a junior. When we met, we realized we had a lot in > > > > common. We > > > > both grew up in the same city just on different sides of > > > > town. So we > > > > didn't know each other.We were raised by strong single > > > > black women that > > > > made sure we had the best, we were raised in the church, > > > > and we both > > > > wanted to get legal degrees. We got married shortly after I > > > > graduated > > > > college and we relocated to Chicago in hopes of attending > > > > law school. > > > > When we got to Chicago, I became a nurse instead and my > > > > husband got a > > > > position at a legal firm (long story short, we didn't > > > > make it to law > > > > school). We both are devout Christians and we have been for > > > > most of our > > > > life. We decided that in order to really move forward in > > > > our spiritual > > > > life, that we needed to forgive all the people we had > > > > problems with > > > > including our fathers. We didn't realize how much that > > > > unforgiveness > > > > impacted our own lives. I made it a point to forgive my > > > > father in my > > > > heart because I knew it would be difficult to find him. My > > > > husband, > > > > however, got in touch with his father and made arrangements > > > > to meet up > > > > with him when we went home for our family reunion. They > > > > decided to meet > > > > up at the park where the reunion was to be held because > > > > they felt that > > > > was a neutral spot. We went home for the family reunion in > > > > May.. To my > > > > surprise, my father was there. Even though I hadn't > > > > seen him in almost > > > > 16 yrs, I knew it was him. I remembered the goal me and my > > > > husband had > > > > set for ourselves so I agreed to go somewhere and talk with > > > > him as long > > > > as we remained in the park. After about 45 minutes of > > > > catching up, I > > > > finally asked him what he was doing at the park on that day > > > > of all days. > > > > He mentioned that he was there to meet someone special in > > > > his life. I > > > > figured it was probably just another women. Just then, my > > > > husband walked > > > > up and said, I see you met my father. At that point, I did > > > > pass out > > > > (literally). I woke up in the hospital a couple of hours > > > > later. After a > > > > week, my husband went back to Chicago. I remained in our > > > > hometown with > > > > my mother. I was not ready to face all the issues on my > > > > plate and I > > > > couldn't just go back to Chicago with my > > > > husband/brother. After 3 mons, > > > > I am absolutely confused about what to do. Even though we > > > > have only been > > > > married for 2 years, we have been together for almost 5. I > > > > can't imagine > > > > my life without him. However, I get sick to my stomach when > > > > I think > > > > about the fact that I have been sleeping with my brother > > > > for so long. I > > > > know deep down it isn't really our fault. I mean we did > > > > everything > > > > right. I know the obvious thing to do is divorce him. But > > > > that is easier > > > > said than done. I am not torn between divorce and my > > > > religious beliefs > > > > because we got married under false pretenses. My problem > > > > is, I am torn > > > > between doing the obvious thing and dealing with all these > > > > emotions at > > > > the same time. Please tell me what to do. 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