If the CIA builds up a dossier on the foibles of a foreign leader and possible 
ways to manipulate that leader, I would not call that empathy.   Can one get in 
the skin of another without feeling their pain or validating it?   I think one 
certainly can, and that it can be better to do that in many situations.

From: Friam <[email protected]> On Behalf Of [email protected]
Sent: Thursday, January 7, 2021 11:29 AM
To: 'The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group' <[email protected]>
Subject: Re: [FRIAM] the power of metaphor.

Does seeing imply visual vulnerability?  Hearing imply auditory vulnerability?  
Well, I suppose.  Any time we make ourselves open to information, I suppose we 
are in some sense vulnerable.  But aren't we also impowered?  Feelings only 
make one vulnerable if one fails to process them.

N

Nicholas Thompson
Emeritus Professor of Ethology and Psychology
Clark University
[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
https://wordpress.clarku.edu/nthompson/



From: Friam <[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> On 
Behalf Of Marcus Daniels
Sent: Thursday, January 7, 2021 12:03 PM
To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group 
<[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>>
Subject: Re: [FRIAM] the power of metaphor.

A problem with empathy is that it typically understood to be a "feeling".   
Feeling means offering vulnerability.    The class of people we are discussing 
should not be offered that.   They should be shown, in a calm and steady 
manner, to a bland government bus after the empathy value is firmly in the off 
position.

From: Friam <[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> On 
Behalf Of [email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
Sent: Thursday, January 7, 2021 9:51 AM
To: 'The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group' 
<[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>>
Subject: Re: [FRIAM] the power of metaphor.

Well, I hate to shortcut a perfectly good argument, but I think, now, we agree. 
 If you concede that empathy is a form of perception whose value as information 
cannot be denied, I can readily agree that so focusing on one's empathy as to 
avoid all other sources of information is dangerous and stupid  and cloying.

Nick

Nicholas Thompson
Emeritus Professor of Ethology and Psychology
Clark University
[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
https://wordpress.clarku.edu/nthompson/



From: Friam <[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> On 
Behalf Of Marcus Daniels
Sent: Thursday, January 7, 2021 11:39 AM
To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group 
<[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>>
Subject: Re: [FRIAM] the power of metaphor.

Sure, I use my eyes and visual cortex to judge the speed of an oncoming car.   
But I shouldn't model that last fractions of a second before impact in 
luxurious detail.  That's suicidal.  I should step on the brakes or the gas to 
avoid the collision.   That's what all this empathy talk strikes me as - giving 
dangerous people so many mental cycles that they do collide into you.    
Wringing ones hands before victimization is complete.  No, take the mental 
cycles and develop some tactics and strategy for preventing these people from 
being dangerous.

I only mention Ted Cruz because he seems a slightly interesting person, in a 
sort of satanic way.   Most of the others are mad dogs as far as I am concerned.

From: Friam <[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> On 
Behalf Of [email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
Sent: Thursday, January 7, 2021 9:30 AM
To: 'The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group' 
<[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>>
Subject: Re: [FRIAM] the power of metaphor.

Marcus,

You could not have written what you wrote here, with it's searing pointedness, 
without empathy.  Empathy is not an ideology; is an organ of perception.

n

Nicholas Thompson
Emeritus Professor of Ethology and Psychology
Clark University
[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
https://wordpress.clarku.edu/nthompson/



From: Friam <[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> On 
Behalf Of Marcus Daniels
Sent: Thursday, January 7, 2021 11:05 AM
To: The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group 
<[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>>
Subject: Re: [FRIAM] the power of metaphor.

The prior reflections by Glen on young adulthood makes me wonder about Ted's.   
Was there a particular point at which he decided to be a public person and that 
he realized he could find an angle in any situation?   Did he anticipate what 
his life would become, or did he just fall into it?  Sometimes it seems like he 
doesn't even enjoy it.   It seems there is no objective distance he gets from 
his nihilism.  There's just always the next thing he has to do.

From: Friam <[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> On 
Behalf Of [email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
Sent: Thursday, January 7, 2021 8:53 AM
To: 'The Friday Morning Applied Complexity Coffee Group' 
<[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>>
Subject: [FRIAM] the power of metaphor.

Bret Stephens, a NYT columnist, described Ted Cruz as "a serpent covered in 
Vaseline" .  Will I ever get that image out of my head?

Nick

Nicholas Thompson
Emeritus Professor of Ethology and Psychology
Clark University
[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
https://wordpress.clarku.edu/nthompson/



- .... . -..-. . -. -.. -..-. .. ... -..-. .... . .-. .
FRIAM Applied Complexity Group listserv
Zoom Fridays 9:30a-12p Mtn GMT-6  bit.ly/virtualfriam
un/subscribe http://redfish.com/mailman/listinfo/friam_redfish.com
archives: http://friam.471366.n2.nabble.com/
FRIAM-COMIC http://friam-comic.blogspot.com/ 

Reply via email to