It boils down to "people with aberrant behavior or bearing produce anxiety
in women." This is drawn from a Facebook survey. It's interesting, even if
the "study" doesn't really produce any more knowledge than most other
Facebook surveys.

The link to the problem of addressing Wikipedia's gendergap seems tenuous;
are you suggesting that Wikipedia editors display aberrant behavior which
prospective female editors find creepy, making it less likely that they
will contribute?

On Tue, May 10, 2016 at 12:01 PM, Neotarf <[email protected]> wrote:

> A study published in the journal New Ideas in Psychology, unfortunately
> behind a paywall, reviewed by Dr. NerdLove. [1]
>
> Some highlights:
>
> *"*So we’re not allowed to give women compliments?  – *No, telling a
> woman how sexy she is isn’t a compliment, especially when you don’t have
> that level of intimacy with her."
>
> *"One of the keys to what made someone creepy was the potential for
> ambiguity. The study’s authors suggest that because one’s creep-radar is
> keyed towards finding potential threats, the ambiguousness of somebody’s
> behavior could make people uncomfortable. After all, if you’re continually
> wondering if this person actually poses a threat to you, you’re left in a
> state of anxious paralysis; you’re continually on edge trying to determine
> just what the appropriate reaction to the situation is. Guessing wrong can
> have consequences, after all; misjudge a potential threat and now you’ve
> made yourself vulnerable to someone who means you harm."
>
> *"One of the most common ways guys are creepy is by ignoring issues of
> boundaries and demonstrating that they have more information about somebody
> than they should." Example from Instagram: He: "So I take it you're staying
> at the Excalibur?" She: "Excuse me, do you not seriously realize how
> f*cking creepy it is for a stranger to message a woman out of the blue
> insinuating he knows where she is?"
>
> *From the comments: "Someone who comes close to that line and manages not
> to cross it obviously knows where it is."
>
> [1] http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2016/05/the-science-of-being-creepy/
>
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