Dear sir,
   
  I too noticed this phenomenon happening in Malaysia. I wonder what actually 
cause it. Is it because they have to get themselves really ready in term of 
material or monetary. Or is it really because they couldn't get suitable 
partners or could it be that they dont want any attachement which will only 
burden them. I think a survey should be conducted on this subject, and at the 
same time creating a channel like what have been done through the web is also a 
brilliant idea.I hope this groups are able to discuss this matter further and 
look for ways to minimise the problem, if it is a problem. In the name of ALLAH 
the merciful, I hope we'll be blessed for unveiling this phenomenon and guide 
us to solve it.
   
  Thank you.
   
  Salaam
  Leon

IslahGateway <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
            Assalamualaikum
   
  We are really concern about social development in Malaysia where nowadays, 
muslim brothers and sisters are getting marriage late in their life, and some 
are having difficulties in finding the spouse.    
   
  The extent of the problem is far to gauge but potentially damaging.
   
  I noticed that most islamic NGOs in Malaysia do have "Baitul Muslim" section, 
at least to look after their members, and a couple also offering services to 
the wide public. At the same time, perhaps, islamic NGOs must try even harder 
and take a lead and proactive roles to address this issue. But of course, 
family members, relatives and close friends must also play an active role in 
helping those looking for marriage.
   
  However, this is a global issue, where muslims in the west are facing with 
similar issue. The different being, those organisations in the west, mostly 
proactive in tackling this problem.
   
   
  IslahGateway
   
    
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  Below are only examples, and looking at the statistics of profiles of those 
in this egroup, will reveal similar issues. 
   
  Mencari Pasangan Hidup
  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/hidayahnet/message/28987
   
  membantu mencari jodoh
  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/hidayahnet/message/28339
   
  Cari Jodoh lagi................
  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/hidayahnet/message/28266
   
  Cari Jodoh....
  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/hidayahnet/message/28186
   
   
   
   
    
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