In my opinion the point at hand is regarding how hpr behaves, not how
the harassed or harassed behaves. Those are important points but not
really the point of the discussion.
On 12/16/19 7:33 PM, brian via Hpr wrote:
this kind of escalation seems to be common lately. let us not allow it
to invade... our community is one of inclusiveness, and i have not
seen the contrary, except for a brief spaceman/vulgarity moment. i
feel we were civil in that instance, and we can remain so now. realize
that tone and tact are left to be interpreted by the reader. paul was
offering a positive thought in my opinion, while it may have been
heard as callous to jason. i still have no context with this incident,
so the discussion is of harassment in general. this has many
connotations to us all.
--brian
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On Dec 16, 2019, 16:30, Jason Scott < [email protected]> wrote:
Spoken like someone who has never really been harassed.
On Sat, Dec 14, 2019 at 1:34 PM Paul Quirk <[email protected]
<mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
At some point, those who are being harassed need to recognize
the fact
that they have the power to ignore their harassers and
recognize that
engaging with certain personalities that conflict with your
own as a
complete waste of your time. Just go on doing what you're
doing; life's
too short to not have fun, and I for one think that we should all
consider that perhaps those who are harassing others have
their own
personal issues to deal with. If you think of your harasser as
a 5 year
old brat who never grew up beyond the playground taunts, it
becomes much
easier to dismiss them as such. Seriously though, mental
illness is a
big issue in today's high paced, highly competitive, stressed
out and
drugged up world, and often finding compassion for those you
feel are
harassing you can lead to a long term sense of well-being. That's
another two cents from me, I'm almost up to a nickel now. :)
On 2019-12-14 10:52 a.m., lostnbronx wrote:
> When you think about it, it's surprising we haven't had this
problem
> before. Unless we did, and it just wasn't brought to light.
>
> Can we assume the harassment source was from within the
community, and
> not just from random trolls on the Internet? I think
removing email
> addresses of hosts is a great first step, at any rate.
>
> A CoC would give the admins the power to act without having
to seek
> community consensus on every incident. It would also provide
clear
> guidelines for community members and admins alike regarding
how to
> behave, and what will happen if you don't.
>
> It makes me sad that we need this, but I guess we were overdue.
>
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