here is how to get your husband to clean sheaths:
you say "don't do that. that's ok, I'll do that. Please don't do that, he has a thing about that. if you get your hand kicked I'm not ruining my day by going with you to the emergency room. stop, ok, he doesnt want you to do that. I dont want to hear any whining when he kicks your arm off. please stop. dont do that ok? please dont do that,. he hates that. he is gonna kick you. look, his ears are back. why wont you listen to me. stick your head down there so when he kicks he will hit something important. why wont you listen to me. you are the man who won't listen to horses that whisper. when he breaks your hand i wont feel sorry for you." Janice-- even good horses have bad days sometimes.
