Lori in MD wrote: > > sexual preference cannot be lumped in here-it isn't a choice. > > Well now, Colin, of course SOME of it must be! To prefer to have sex, > or not to have sex. To prefer S/M, or D/S, or B/D, or not. Et > cetera ...
maybe I ought to, but i just don't think of that when i think of sexual preference. I guess mainly because when people refer to it, they are thinking of your second sentence..... I also tend to not like the term sexual preference to refer to being gay/bit/str8 or whateve anyway. It best suits the above. Being gay bi str8 etc is much more than sex. > > > Oh, you were talking about being queer? You're right, that's not a > choice. > > Lori, > born that way > > ~ -- bw colin DAK,BRO GC, 950i, 940,860,864,890, 260,Silver 830,860, 580 and 270, Passap 6000, Duo80,Creation 6 [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.tantra-apso.com
