hey lama, >It's also an unspoken code, which I had broken, that if you're >straight, you >never discuss other lifestyles in anyway.
as a card-carrying member of the gay mafia, i can assure you, we rescinded that part of the code many years ago. you and i have been on this list for over five years, and i wanted to make sure that everyone on the list knows this: i've always appreciated your approach to thinking about and discussing homosexuality. you've been open-minded as we've communicated some of our gripes, and when we've had disputes with some homophobes (and there have been more than a few here). the comment about straight guys never commenting on other men's looks made me laugh, and reminded me of a moment from a will and grace episode. it was the hour-long thanksgiving flashback a couple of years ago, and will, then in college, was asking his roommate "do these pants make my butt look fat?" till the roommate had to enforce the code. very funny. patrick np - radiohead - kid a
