Tom, I would not have been against including her in our family. But she obviously didn't want to be part of mine. I do go back to a family reunion of a branch of descendants and when asked which line I belonged to, I replied that actually I was descended from J. C. Merret. The lady then said, "Oh, do you know that he was illegitimate?" I said, yes, that I'd heard that. It was a great group of people.
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