Yes, I know I can do that. But I still think it should be easier than it it to do it the other way round.
Thanks, Pat On Thu, Nov 8, 2012 at 12:55 PM, Mary Moyer <[email protected]> wrote: > Pat > > Add the existing child to the parents, not the parents to the child. > > Mary > > > On Thu, Nov 8, 2012 at 9:49 AM, Pat Hickin <[email protected]> wrote: > >> I repeatedly have this problem, or a variation of same. >> >> I just learned that a Mary Springer I have is a daughter of Nathan >> Springer and Hannah McDaniel, both of whom I already have & as married to >> each other. >> So I linked Mary Springer to existing Nathan Springer. I was *not* asked >> whether I wanted one of his existing spouses to be Mary's mother. >> >> But I did link her to an existing person, namely Hannah McDaniel. I was >> told Hannah was already Nathan's husband and I was asked if I wanted to >> link her in again. Well, I didn't want to do it *again*, but there was >> no option just to *choose* her, so I said "Yes," thinking I could just >> merge the two Hannahs. >> >> Now I am showing Nathan with *two* Hannahs (as well as 2 other wives) >> for a total of 4 wives. *Both* Hannahs have the same RIN and (I suppose >> for that reason) Legacy won't let me merge them. >> >> Both Hannahs have the same children & step-children. The only way I can >> tell them apart is that the original Hannah has a marriage date of 1776 and >> the 2nd has no marriage info. >> >> Hannah is shown as having 2 husbands, both named Nathaniel Springer, both >> with the same RIN.. >> >> I tried deleting the Hannah without a marriage date, but all it did was >> to change both Hannah McDaniels to Unknown! >> >> So I still have Nathan married 4x -- to 2 Unknowns, one with no marriage >> date; one with a marriage date of 1776. >> >> I tried to delete the Unknown w/o a marriage date and was asked if I >> wanted to unlink Nathan from his child Mary!! >> >> Why was that relevant?? I would have said "No," but I was not offered >> that option! >> I could simply choose among "Yes" "Cancel" "Zoom" and "Help." "Help" >> did not offer any way to keep Nathan linked to daughter Mary!!! So I chose >> "Yes (unlink Nathan from his daughter Mary)." >> >> I now attempted to edit the "Unknown" wife whom he married in 1776 by >> clicking on the empty wife screen. The box asking me to choose between >> existing person and new person had an option (already checked) to add this >> person to the current marriage (fine) so I then clicked "link to an >> existing person." But Hannah McDaniel had totally disappeared from my name >> list although I had only deleted the Hannah without a marriage date. >> >> Fortunately, I had no information entered for either Hannah except the >> dom for the original so I was able to re-enter her name easily enough. >> Daughter Mary of course was no longer listed as a child but I was able to >> link her back in. >> >> Can someone explain to me why Legacy makes it so hard to link an existing >> child to an existing couple? Or tell me how to do it easily? >> >> Thanks! >> >> Pat >> >> >> >> Legacy User Group guidelines: >> http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Etiquette.asp >> Archived messages after Nov. 21 2009: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >> Archived messages from old mail server - before Nov. 21 2009: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ >> Online technical support: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Help.asp >> Follow Legacy on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/LegacyFamilyTree) and >> on our blog (http://news.LegacyFamilyTree.com). >> To unsubscribe: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/LegacyLists.asp >> > > > > Legacy User Group guidelines: > http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Etiquette.asp > Archived messages after Nov. 21 2009: > http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ > Archived messages from old mail server - before Nov. 21 2009: > http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ > Online technical support: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Help.asp > Follow Legacy on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/LegacyFamilyTree) and > on our blog (http://news.LegacyFamilyTree.com). > To unsubscribe: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/LegacyLists.asp > Legacy User Group guidelines: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Etiquette.asp Archived messages after Nov. 21 2009: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ Archived messages from old mail server - before Nov. 21 2009: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ Online technical support: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/Help.asp Follow Legacy on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/LegacyFamilyTree) and on our blog (http://news.LegacyFamilyTree.com). To unsubscribe: http://www.LegacyFamilyTree.com/LegacyLists.asp
