And now, some mailing list etiquette.

Question: Should I mail a copy of my response to the list, and to the person 
who wrote the message?

There are two opinions on this, and as far as I'm concerned they're both wrong.

Opinion A: some people subscribe to mailing lists in "digest form" for reasons 
such as only being interrupted by a high-volume list once a day.  Some mailing 
lists allow non-members to post to the list (moderated or otherwise).  In both 
cases, leaving the original poster's address in the TO or CC field when you 
reply is "A Good Thing™" because the digest subscriber gets their answer faster 
without having to wait for tomorrow's digest, and the non-subscribed poster 
gets an answer (at all).

Opinion B: Some people subscribe to digest view in order to reduce the volume 
of email they have to deal with. For these people, replying to them as well as 
the list is A Bad Thing™. For other people who are list subscribers, they end 
up getting duplicates of email, which they too consider to be A Bad Thing™.

Both opinions are wrong, but they are the best we can come up with until mail 
clients support a means for a message poster to request "reply to list only 
please".

Replying to All without chopping off list subscriber addresses is easily 
handled at my end by filtering duplicate messages. This can be done by my mail 
server acting as an MTA (ie: keep track of Message-IDs received and don't hand 
duplicate messages to the MDA), or my mail server acting as an MDA (ie: don't 
deliver duplicate messages), or my IMAP server (ie: don't write duplicate 
messages to the store), or by my mail client (eg: rule to filter duplicate 
messages).

Complaining at length ON THE LIST about people who reply to all without 
chopping off subscribers is not easily handled at my end. This is the greater 
of the two evils, since it really does waste my time.

In the worst instance, where my mail server or client do not de-duplicate, 
"Replying to All" is only just as bad as "Complaining at length ON THE LIST 
about people Replying to All". I find it easier to cope with deleting a second 
(or third, or fourth) copy of something I've just read, than having to delete 
messages which are terribly off-topic (and usually emotionally charged with 
UPPERCASE SHOUTING to add emotive impact). The former is a mechanical task, the 
latter involves switching mental context.


So please, can we all just agree to disagree?

Here are some positive actions you can pursue:
 - Send a feature request to your mail client publisher to have de-duplication 
based on Message-ID built in,
 - ask your ISP to de-duplicate incoming mail,
 - simply skip over multiple messages received from one person within a few 
minutes, or
 - resign yourself to deleting duplicate messages, as has been done since the 
dawn of time*

I'm not a list moderator — but if I was, by golly some of you folks would get a 
stern talking to :P

Alex
* Dawn of time being 0 in the Unix epoch, of course.

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