I have a hard time believing when someone tells me that they have
found the one... what does it mean anyway..The one.. why does it thave
to be one...I believe that people can and do fall in love with more
than one person at the same time...and that is why i am opposed to
marriage as an institution...a promise to be with each other
forever!...I think open relationships are much better..there is no
emotional burden...Also sexual and emotional intimacy does not always
have to be in one single package.. i do not see adultery as something
horrible...and i really resented the way media made an example of
Tiger woods and his many affairs...so wat he slept with many women..
its not like they didnt know who he was and that he was married...The
fact that religion penetrated and dictated every aspect of individual
lives still shows its effects...sex is something sacred and at the
same time tabboed(although some countries have come to take liberal
views there are still many orthodox societies)... its a natural
instinct why make something else out of it...its like hunger..The more
you try to regulate it the more you pervert it...the fact that
teenagers are told to abstain should only be because of health reasons
not because premarital sex is a sin...It was because that religion
first dictated that homosexuality is immoral that subsequent legal
bans on it followed.. and it is still so ingrained in society that
most homosexuals have a hard life..only because of one aspect of their
individuality... As for monogamy i really dont think it is a universal
truth...i mean it was fine when the mortality rate was around 50 you
could stick around with one.. but things are changing... And with the
society must evolve its institutions and the values related to these
institutions ... So after all this rambling all id like to say is that
the society should rethink its basic elements which it takes for
granted ...i dont mean to offend all you happily married people out
there.. just a private opinion.. and I'd like to know wat you all
think..
