Bullying a bully is not the answer to stop a bully from bullying. Nor is 
mobbing the best way to stop bullying. I agree with RP. I do not think that 
Gabby is bullying Allen. 
This is a moderated group. In one post a while back, Molly one of our 
moderators admitted that she enjoyed people having a verbal fight. Niel our 
other moderator has voiced his opinion that it is quite OK to get off 
topic. I think that is the problem. This moderated group is really not 
moderated at all. I think that the moderators  beleive that their main or 
only job is to censor anyone they think is spamming this group. 

When I open a discussion on Bitcoin, and I get a reply that i am not 
original or I have selfish motives for supporting Bitcoin, or that I do not 
know what I am talking about, the moderators should step in and remind that 
responder that their reply is "off topic" and urge the discussion back to 
the relevant topic. The moderation should definitely not discourage any 
member from discussing anything they want to discuss. When I am told by a 
moderator that it is not possible to have a meaningful discussion with me 
because I keep changing my point of view, it clearly shows arrogance and 
ignorance. But it is not bullying. The best way to deal with arrogance and 
ignorance and bullying is to ignore it. 

I think that if the moderators start to recognize provocation, they will 
not be themselves provocative and they will start to encourage  exchange of 
opinion in this forum even if they do not agree with the opinions.  

On Wednesday, March 11, 2015 at 2:37:24 PM UTC+1, RP Singh wrote:
>
> Hope, I am speaking for myself, Allan bullied me for many many years, and 
> I handled him by myself. Now let Allan handle Gabby by himself, I don't see 
> how the rules can change, when the group didn't say anything then, how can 
> it say anything now? As for Andrew he might say anything or he may not, it 
> is upto him.
> But I feel that Gabby is doing nothing wrong!
>
> On Wed, Mar 11, 2015 at 6:47 PM, Hope Sunshine <[email protected] 
> <javascript:>> wrote:
>
>> Are you asking for the written reference? Sure, here it is: 
>> https://groups.google.com/d/msg/minds-eye/-5LTfst-rD0/5lblbwbs97MJ
>> I really think we should not tolerate this any longer! Speak up everyone! 
>> There are more bullies here, I hear? Bring it up, don't be shy! Let's do 
>> something about it! You feel Andrew has suffered here too? Let's encourage 
>> Andrew to speak about his experiences for I promise we won't let the 
>> bullies win!
>>
>>
>>
>

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