Mary
I spent the first 2 years attempting to achieve forgiveness - to the husband
and to his Mother. I have not been entirely successful, but almost. What's
interesting to me about this is that I am not having a problem forgiving him
for injuring me, but for causing me to lose my farm. My property. Does
anyone else find this interesting? Territorial Social Level instincts
coming to the fore?
Seems logical, but perhaps a tad too logical. Especially in combination with:
Men are predators and women are prey animals.
and:
I would love to strike out on my own into the unknown and have dynamic
experiences every day, but I am a prey animal. It would be suicide.
Keep in mind that I have no schooling in psychology whatsoever so I could be
completely off base here, and I guess/hope you have talked about this with
professionals during the healing time, but couldn't it be that you logically and
intellectually focus on the loss of your home to keep yourself from thinking
about your loss of dynamic freedom?
It sounds like an episode from a TV-series, and it probably is. So again, I
could be dead wrong.
Big hugs from snowy Sweden!
Magnus
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