Dmb,
Isn't rationalization wonderful? But I remember there was someone a while back
who after a little criticism had a hissy-fit and left in a huff. And didn't he
return in a flash when I stated that I missed him.
Marsha
On Jul 26, 2011, at 10:37 PM, david buchanan wrote:
>
> Steve:said:
> ...I AM pissed about how dmb routinely treats people on this forum. That's
> why I called him a dick. I'm fed up with it. There's just no way he could get
> away taking the dickish pose he takes in this forum when talking to people in
> person. That lousy social pattern of his would get straightened out by
> biological patterns right quick.
>
> dmb says:
>
> I've lost friends, lovers, jobs and several times I almost lost my life. But
> other than that, my smart ass comments haven't caused me any problems. But
> seriously, I wouldn't be much different if we were face to face and doing
> this over a beer.
>
> Steve continued:
> ...Some people just can't handle criticism (yeah, right. THAT's the issue).
> But I have little doubt that he'll be back to his old ways very soon, and
> you'll see what I mean if you don't already know. (This is a guy who can't
> get along with Matt K of all people!) ..., but here again is an example of
> what is so toxic about dmb.
>
> dmb says:
> How about an actual example? I deleted your six point scenario, which was
> very inventive and very unfair. Find something to quibble about and turn it
> into a huge deal? Isn't that just a viciously ungenerous way to say that I
> disagree about things that I think are important? Isn't that just a way to
> belittle my concerns?
>
> Seriously, I'd like to know what it is that makes you so pissed. Give me an
> actual example of something I saidto you that counts as being a "dick". If
> it's really not about being criticized, but being criticized in an offensive
> way, then you should be specific. Maybe you're right, but as I see it you
> have been outrageously offensive toward me. I'm talking about obscenities and
> lies and distortions and insults. If you look back over our exchanges, I
> think you'll find that my hostility is pretty much limited to complaining
> about that offensive behavior. As I see it, you're calling me a dick for
> complaining about these abuses. Take a look. I'm just going on memory. Maybe
> you'll find ten solid examples wherein I was rude for absolutely no reason.
> Or maybe you'll be a bit ashamed of yourself. Feel like gambling with your
> self-perception?
>
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