Jon - please clarify then what are the changes you are suggesting. 
All I got from your post is that we shouldn't be happy because because
are suffering.  My response has consistently been - focus on the
suffering and that's what you get - suffering.  Help me understand
your view - lay out your suggestions again.

Shalom

David Lind
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> In a message dated 12/13/99 10:40:50 AM Central Standard Time, 
> [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
> 
> << But look at the social welfare state in America.  This came about
>  because noble people wanted to "ease the suffering."  We now have a
>  system that doesn't work, encourages dependency and children who grow
>  up 'expecting' to be on welfare when they are older.  
>  
>  The same thing happens when we solve other's problems.  NOTE: I AM
>  NOT SAYING WE SHOULD NEVER HELP ANOTHER PERSON - but change does come
>  from within - within THAT PERSON.  To impose our belief on another
>  (and this is where the force of law argument came in) IS WRONG.  To
>  help another see a different view which may benefit them - that seems
>  moral enough, but it's that attempt to force people to comply that
>  messes us up.  America will never olve its crime problem as long as it
>  think it can legislate morality. >>
> 
> David, your initial reaction to the changes I suggest is the typical
initial 
> reaction, and a big part of the problem. I talk about helping people, and 
> immediately you think of welfare and other such laws. I've been consistent
in 
> my posts about a few things, and one of those things is that laws are not
the 
> answer and should not even be *considered* as a method of solving our 
> problems. I don't think it's fair or logical to compare the changes I
suggest 
> to laws of the past, because they are two totally different animals. But
many 
> can't seem to grasp this concept. Perhaps because it's a way of thinking
that 
> hasn't ever been seriously considered before; I'm talking about a very deep

> value adjustment, a way of looking at things from a totally different
angle. 
> But whenever change such as this is suggested, red flags immediately shoot 
> up, such as "that would be imposing your beliefs on others!" I guess the 
> cultural immune system Pirsig talks about is partially to blame for this.
> 
> So many people say "follow your heart" and "do what you want." But they
don't 
> want to deeply consider *why* they want to do what they do, or the goodness

> of it beyond social acceptance. Perhaps because they're scared of the
answers 
> they may find.
> 
> Jon
> 
> 
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