This would, on its face, not seem to be a Minneapolis issue.  However, let
me assure readers that it is a very pressing and important Minneapolis
issue.  Because it IS happening every day in every neighborhood and every
community in our City of Minneapolis.

Booker, thank you for your post.  It stimulated some terrible memories, but
it is important. As a child I was abused and that left lasting scars.  But
as bad as that was I am not sure if the memory of watching when my mother
was being knocked down and kicked around was not even worse, and left even
deeper scars.  It is something that is indelibly imprinted into my mind, and
into the minds of all children who experience it.

For that reason I have on occasion severely physically abused, (beat the
hell out of), a few men who I encountered when they were in the act of
abusing women.  Almost always the person being abused is their wives or girl
friends who they considered as "belonging" to them.  Where men get the idea
that beating a woman is their "Right" is beyond me, but some do have it and
even worse some women even share it. Men being even mildly abusive to women
still brings on a rage in me whose depth is difficult to explain to someone
who has not also experienced that helplessness as a child to help and
protect ones own mother.

When I gave my mothers eulogy I said she must be in heaven cause she
certainly lived in a hell during her life. A terrible thing to have to say
at one's own mother's funeral.  After the service her sisters came, agreed
with me, and thanked me because "it needed to be said".  It is never too
early to intervene in abusive situations.  Yes we are our "sisters" keepers!

Again, thank you for the post.

Jim Graham'
Ventura Village

/mpls

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1. Don't feed the troll! Ignore obvious flame-bait.
2. If you don't like what's being discussed here, don't complain - change the subject 
(Mpls-specific, of course.)

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