I've done a lot of public speaking and there are a lot of good suggestions
here.   

 

But I'll give you one gem - it really helped me. 

 

Years ago, I did professional corporate spokesperson training.   There's all
kinds of tips and tricks.  Most of them I can't remember. 

 

But really, the most valuable thing I learned was this:

 

It's ok to go "umm", to pause, to have a space to collect your thoughts.  

 

When we're speaking in public, we think that these times when we're trying
to remember what the hell we're going to say next are noticeable by
everyone.  

 

They're not.  If you look at great public speakers, they pause all the time.


 

So, if you find yourself freaked out and can't remember what you're going to
say next, don't worry, it's not like everyone is noticing. Just pause,
relax, and talk like you're talking to another person, and it will go fine. 

 

And act confident, like you do it all the time.  Even if you're shaking and
sweating, be bold. Fake it 'till you make it!

 

 

Alex

 

 

 

From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]]
On Behalf Of Ken Schaefer
Sent: Wednesday, September 11, 2013 7:27 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: RE: [NTSysADM] OT: Speaking in public

 

+1 with the videotaping thing (especially if you can do it in-front of an
audience)

 

It can be quite confronting, but it will let you pick up on a bunch of
things that you simply didn't realise you were doing.

 

Cheers

Ken

 

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[mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Christopher Bodnar
Sent: Thursday, 12 September 2013 6:30 AM
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Subject: Re: [NTSysADM] OT: Speaking in public

 

I used to be a teacher in another life..... 

Practice in front of an audience first (family, co-workers, etc....), and if
possible video tape yourself, and critique it afterward. Refine it until you
are more comfortable with the results. 

YMMV 


Christopher Bodnar 
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Date:        09/11/2013 04:20 PM 
Subject:        [NTSysADM] OT: Speaking in public 
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Next week, against my better judgement, I'm doing my first ever bit of
technical presentation in front of an audience...and because my submission
was apparently different and interesting, I'm going on last out of six
presenters :-(

Just wondering if anyone on the list (particularly the conference veterans)
have any tips or hints to share around this sort of thing (besides having
about five or six beers first)? I'm not a natural public speaker or
limelight-seeker, I write much better than I talk :-(

All input appreciated!


JR


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