Dear Elaine, I never blame others for my fool decision. But, this situasion is not my fault. There's any "Big Power" who planned this agenda, like Embah said.
How about this: http://www.detikfinance.com/read/2009/01/09/183823/1065968/6/jaminan- aset-sarijaya-tak-cukup-talangi-penggelapan-dana So clear, no one said this situation is fair, especially for retail trader like us. I hope you understand if all SP customers feel desperate for this disaster, because law inforcement in Indonesia was very bad. We don't know how long all of our investment will be back. --- In obrolan-bandar@yahoogroups.com, "Elaine Sui" <elainesu...@...> wrote: > > *This' an example of the psychology of blame. Elaine sudah pernah kirim like > nine months ago, jadi repost. **Banyak trader depressed with the market, > harus ada penyaluran agar tidak gila. Ini Elaine kasih artikel bagus sekali, > boleh baca. > > If you EVER blame others for your investment decision, that'd be childish > and you don't have what it takes to be an investor. The funniest part is I > heard in Indonesia some investors BLAME on analyst' research, but the fact > that they don't understand the content, they **even **can't read > English..llooll.. > > **Read on.* > > *The Psychology of Blame > http://www.mvesc.k12.oh.us/psychology/PsychBulletins/11_90.htm > * > > *People have a tendency to find someone to blame when bad things > happen.This behavior is certainly very prevalent and easy to observe > in children. > The burgeoning personal liability business in our country attests to the > pervasiveness of this tendency among adults as well.* > > *Psychological theory and research examining this observed human behavior is > quite complicated and incomplete. There is some empirical data emerging to > explain why people blame others but for the most part much of our > understanding is based on theory and speculation. The authors cited below > have developed a theory of blame prediction based on several situational and > personal characteristics.* > > *There are four situational factors that affect the likelihood that > other-blame will occur. The presence of another at the time of the event > increases the probability of that person being blamed. This is why surgeons > and obstetricians seem to be blamed much more frequently than general > practitioners. The former are more likely to be there when a bad event > occurs while the latter deal with insidious or chronic problems that have no > discrete starting point. In education, it is more likely, for example, that > a teacher who retains a student will be blamed for the student's academic > difficulties even ten years later despite the fact that the problems were > there long before the event and continued afterwards.* > > *Saat ada orang bicara bearish (aka bad news/contrarian), seringkali di > serang, dan semakin diserah saat benar terjadi.** > * > > *Another factor is the perceived knowledge or authority of the other person. > Individuals who are knowledgeable are expected to anticipate negative > outcomes and avoid them.* > > *"Seniors" di anggap bagai savior like Jesus. No, they aren't. They also > want to make money like all of us.* > ** > *A third factor is how well known the other person is to the victim. If the > victim knows the other person well, blame is less likely to result. An > example of this is the greater likelihood of one driver suing another for an > accident. They are usually strangers. It is much less common for an injured > passenger to sue the driver of the car he or she was I since they are more > likely to know each other.* > > *OB lebih kenal Oentoeng/TBumi daripada Elaine, walau kami bicara hal yang > sama, Elaine probability diserang lebih besar. > * > > *Finally, the more severe the outcome of the event, the more likely someone > will be blamed. When two students argue in class, teachers are not usually > concerned with who is to blame. In contrast, when two students fight on the > playground and one is injured, it is more likely that some effort will be > expended to determine who was to blame.* > > *Orang yang bicara bearish saat market at the top akan di blame seakan dia > yang sebabkan market crash. > * > > *There are also two personal factors that are related to the likelihood that > other-blame will occur. One is the person's ability to find the good or > benefit in a bad situation. This ability is characterized by statements such > as "Maybe it is for the better," and "Some good may come out of this." > Similarly, people who tend to make downward comparisons (e.g., "I am > fortunate for what I have. Others have lost so much more.") are less likely > to blame others.* > > *Be grateful with everything. > * > > *The other factor is the person's attributional style. Some people tend to > find fault with others in many situations regardless of the circumstances. > Every teacher has run across at least one such parent. No matter how > illogical the rationale, some people cling to the need to blame others for > everything bad that happens. In contrast, other people have an > attributional style which leads to a tendency to blame themselves no matter > how obviously blameworthy someone else is.* > > *In any given situation, an analysis of the interplay of these factors can > lead to a better understanding of when and why other-blame takes place.* > > *Better understanding = better OB.* > *Elaine* > > 2009/1/9 y_dizz <y_d...@...> > > > Udah satu minggu ini, warga OB disibukkan masalah suspend SP & > > anjloknya BUMI. Sampai2 saham yang lain jadi tidak kita perhatikan. > > > > BENAR2 SEBUAH PLANNED AGENDA YANG SUKSES. Salut BOZZ. > > > > Saya ada usul BOZZ, kalo anda baca email ini. Saya tantang Anda > > buktikan kehebatan Anda. Saya tidak peduli apa tujuan Anda. Kalo > > memang niatnya mau ngehajar investor retail, jangan tanggung2. > > > > Ayo kalo berani habisin IPOT & eTrading juga. Terserah caranya > > gimana, mau disabotase kek, mau disuspend kek. Anda kan yang paling > > hebat, pikir sendiri dong gimana caranya. > > > > Huahaha... Dipikir kita takut. Ayo kalo berani! > > > > > > > > --- In obrolan-bandar@yahoogroups.com, "jsx_consultant" <jsx- > > consultant@> wrote: > > > > > > Datanya bisa BERBEDA kalo ada penggelapan... > > > > > > Jika DIBANDINGKAN akan didapat SELISIH yg menunjukan penggelapan. > > > > > > > > > --- In obrolan-bandar@yahoogroups.com, "abdulrahim abdulrahim" > > > <abdul.rahman.rahim@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Iya dangud banget. Wong datanya yang ngirimin kita dia juga. > > > > Deadline nya kayaknya itu dari kita. Si Erry baca ultimatum warga > > OB > > > wakakaka > > > > > > > > 2009/1/9 Kidod25 <kidod25@>: > > > > > heran juga kenapa nasabah kudu nyerahin data, emang di SP dan > > KSEI > > > gada > > > > > datanya apa? ancur bgt dah nih > > > > > > > > > > > > > http://www.sarijayasecurities.com/dmdocuments/ > > FORMULIR_KEPEMILIKAN_DANA_ > > > > > DAN_SAHAM_NASABAH.pdf > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ------------------------------------ > > > > + + > > + + + + + > > Mohon saat meREPLY posting, text dari posting lama dihapus > > kecuali diperlukan agar CONTEXTnya jelas. > > + + + + + > > + +Yahoo! Groups Links > > > > > > > > >
