ok.. hamba pantang dicabar - memang betul tentang jangan ulangi kemistake'an. Lebih2 lagi hadits ada sebut, "Mukminin tidak sepatutnya memasuki lubang yang sama bagi kali kedua".
So here i share some relevant LESSONS i learnt in life, i divide into 2 categories: =PERSONAL= 1. Make mistakes honestly, they make you learn the hard way, anyway. 2. Always be humble, no matter how guru you are. When i was in Germany, i see more better gurus telling me things like, "i will disappoint you. Don't expect too much from me." And i am personally touched by how Dr. M conducted himself even when salam with me or greeting. Always courteous and waiting for others to sit first. There is no harm in saying that 'you are right, i am wrong' in fact a helluva good, even though the idea is yours and not others. The truth and history will appear in the end. If not dunya, in akhira. 3. Listen more. Talk less. Ok, ok, i keep forgeting that. It is a personal weakness. 4. Do not send email when emotional. Go whack that guy upfront. 5. Have a sense of humour. It is boring if you terpaksa write this and you cannot kick ass for fun. =ORGANISATIONAL= 1. Be focus. Do not do too many things at one time. Throw or delegate to other NGOs. 2. Socialise and network around the right ones. Advertise, advertise, advertise. 3. Advertise, advertise, advertise. How many times must i say this? 4. Allow maximum participation. Share secrets even. Everyone knows anyway. 5. Do not have too many points. Those guys are dumb. They cannot ever remember beyond point number 5. All in good jest :) red1 rafe azsnal wrote: > failure is an option... YES most of us do learn when we fail.. but why > should it be that way, centuries and eon we still at that par? we live > by choices and that is something that the ALL MIGHT has given us... we > learn and we adapt and choose not to fail, champion or not if you are > willing to share the experience and knowledge you can actually > minimize the failure and may not fail at all. i may not speak for all > but i speak for myself where failure is not longer an option to > consider. why are we still having meeting, discussion, roundtable, > champion, experience people and all those thing if failure is > something to consider yet again? I don't ask for a complete perfection > bro.. but i would like to see it that way. who doesn't right? my > humble request is only to see it happen and effort to make it happen.. > but what ever it is you still have the right to think how ever you > want it to be and the right to voice what ever that you want it to > be... --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ Join Open Source Developers Club Malaysia http://www.osdc.my/ Facebook Fan page http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=98685301577 http://www.facebook.com/OSDC.my You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "OSDC.my Mailing List" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [email protected] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/osdcmy-list?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
