Thank you Peggy, Chris, Annamarie, Rosa, Allie, John, for such a wonderful conversation. I'm adding another word to the list from my Hawaiian heritage (ohana), and the Lakota version of Chris' indinewmaganik (mitkuye oyasin). As virtual note taker - here are all these lovely words & traditions contributed so far:

English possible antonyms for Lonely:

radiant network, popular, sociable, populous, crowded, close, beloved, loved, accompanied, happy, content, frolicsome, patience, playful, gay, light-hearted, high-spirited

Other languages/cultures

<http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mitakuye_Oyasin>cynefin - Welsh - your places of multiple belonging
indinewmaganik - Anishnabemowin of the Ojibway - I belong to everything
ubuntu - Ngali Bantu - 'I am what I am because of who we all are'.
so hum ( ?? ????) - Sanscrit - "I am He/That", Identifying ones self with the ultimate reality satnam ( ??? ????) - Sanskrit (from Sikhism) - "There is only one constant" or commonly "There is one God" - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satnam
bien acompañada - Spanish - well accompanied
ohana - Hawaiian - family (in an extended sense of the term, including blood-related, adoptive or intentional). The concept emphasizes that families are bound together and members must cooperate and remember one another. mitkuye oyasin - Lakota - "I belong to everything" - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mitakuye_Oyasin

    Warm Regards,
    Harold

On 10/2/14 9:19 AM, Rosa Zubizarreta via OSList wrote:
Peggy, thank you for the beautiful phrase and story... "the radiant network"... :-)

and Chris, thank you. That is the first time I have heard of "I belong to everything" as a more accurate version of "all my relations"... it resonates.

Annamarie, in Spanish (which is my mother tongue), we say "bien acompañada" as the opposite feeling of lonely.

It means, "well-accompanied" or "well-companioned", neither of which I hear used in English as frequently
as "bien acompañada" is, in Spanish...

with all best wishes,

Rosa

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On Thu, Oct 2, 2014 at 10:29 AM, Peggy Holman via OSList <[email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:

    A modern name for that feeling...the radiant network.

    Following the Practice of Peace gathering at Whidbey Island in
    2003, Anne Stadler coined the term the "radiant network" to
    describe the sense of connectedness that was present by the end of
    our time among the 130+ people from 26 countries, many hight
    conflict areas. Chris was there. So was Harrison, and others on
    this list.

    I had it come home to me later that year when in Pune, India
    before the Open Space on Open Space in Goa.  We were walking
    through Osho Park, a sacred place that inspired us to silence.  At
    one point, I joined two of my colleagues who were just standing
    still looking into the distance. All of the sudden, the clouds
    cleared and in this place that had looked empty was the largest
    "colony" of spider webs I've ever seen spread between two trees
    that must have been 15-20 feet apart.

    One of my friends said, "it's the radiant network. When the sun is
    out, you can see it. When the sun is behind the clouds, it's still
    there, but it's invisible."

    Somehow that planted the feeling in my bones. I know that I am
    held in the radiant network. When my heart is open, I feel it
    deeply. When my heart is closed, it's harder to believe, but deep
    within, some part of me knows I am connected. And that gives me
    courage.

    Yes...the opposite of lonely.

    Thanks, Annamarie, for the question.

    And many thanks, Chris, for the language from different wisdom
    traditions.

    appreciatively,
    Peggy



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