Dear listers,
I came across a tired,upset,uptight etc etc mum on ND
about 3weeks ago.She was day 4 and unable to attach her baby to the breast
at all without assistance.The baby had spent his first 2 days in special
care and was attached for her!! She was definately going home in the morning
whether breast or bottle feeding.I couldn't see any reason why he couldn't
attach,so tried talking her through it, explaining it all again etc.By about
0200 she was ready to give up.Although her nipples were fine, I suggested a
nipple shield, in desperation.She attached him totally independantly
immediately and she cried and I breathed a sigh of relief.I had the pleasure
of seeing her again, for her first child health clinic visit last Friday and
he had gained 330gms in 10 days,still only attaching with a shield. No
formula given but it came very close.I felt like I'd won a lottery.
Linda
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----- Original Message -----
From: Cheryl LHK <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Saturday, December 08, 2001 7:20 PM
Subject: re:formula without consent?
>
>
> I work night-duty and see another side of this. By the time I get to work
> the new Mum's who have had a rotten day are having an even worse night.
> They have been told by midwives all day to put the baby to the breast,
they
> are exhausted, have nipple trauma etc. ... the midwives are so busy, they
> have no time to do as much education and assistance as they would like
too.
> Unfair to the Mum's - Yes, but thats life on hospital wards, especially
when
> we have a mix of ages 0 - 90 on any given day.
>
> by the time I get to work, (and it's happened enough), they are in tears,
> desperate for assistance and want me to give this baby formula. One thing
> that I find works for me is that I ask them if they are happy to stay
awake
> for another half an hour, I make sure that the baby is attached and
sucking
> well (regardless of if the baby fed an hour ago), then I make sure Mum has
> drink/Panadol/hot pack etc, and get her into bed, settle baby and make
sure
> that she gets 3 solid hours of sleep.
>
> Now, I know there will be many that criticise and say that the baby should
> room in all the time and that mothers just have to get used to being
tired,
> but I think that we as midwives defeat our own purpose at times by being a
> bit heartless. Many of the mother's request that the baby stays with them
> the rest of the night once they have had the break and the 'formula
> discussion' seems to be forgotten. It doesn't happen every night to every
> Mum, but sometimes a litte bit of practical help (not just the education)
> can make the difference between a Mum throwing her hands in the air and "I
> Quit" to a women who knows that she will need a bit of help but can
continue
> to breast-feed.
>
> Of course what I said above can be done if we are having a reasonable
night,
> but if it's busy, it just compounds the problems of the day, and the next
> night she often will have suppressed. Frustrating at times.
>
>
>
>
> >From: "Grant and Louise" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >To: "Ozmidwifery" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> >Subject: re:formula without consent?
> >Date: Sat, 8 Dec 2001 10:44:20 +1100
> >
> >Oh I see this happen regularly, consent is given - but not INFORMED
> >consent.
> >" Your baby NEEDS a bottle/comp/some food because s/he's
> >hungry/dry/jaundiced/big/little/sleepy/crying/prem/overdue/urates in the
> >nappy (or you've laboured/had a caesar/had diabetes/were overdue/had lots
> >of
> >visitors) " No discussion of alternatives or possible outcomes of the
> >"little bottle".
> >In the mothers eyes it's okay because WE ( who are classed as the
medical)
> >say so.
> >Louise
> >The cure for all things is salt water -
> >Sweat, tears, or the sea.
> >[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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