Dear Lieve, The other thought that I have had on this is about when my grandfather died.
He had cancer and we nursed him at home(I was a 15 year old at the time) until the very last when my grandmother suddenly wanted to go to hospital because she didn't want him to die in their bed, didn't want to lay in the bed that they shared and remember him dieing there but rather to remember their life together there. This was unexpected for the family and although this was a huge change of plans it was the in retrospect the right thing fro my grandmother and I am glad that my grandmother was respected in her wishes. The moral of the story, not to get too fixed on any one pathway. Being open, listening carefully with head and heart. In peace and joy Sally -- This mailing list is sponsored by ACE Graphics. Visit <http://www.acegraphics.com.au> to subscribe or unsubscribe.
