Veel groetjes ginder
Lieve
On 02-12-2002 14:37, "Aviva Sheb'a" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Lieve Lieve,
Wij staan allemaal te samen met jullie. Veel sterkte aan jullie.
Veel liefs,
Aviva
----- Original Message -----
From: Lieve Huybrechts <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Monday, December 02, 2002 7:13 PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] When birth and death come together
Hoi Mary and others of the list,
That's a thing that is of our concern. We don't know how long the baby has
to live, nobody can forsay that and the parents are also worried on how the
baby is going to die.
I am glad that you gave this information.
Maybe in my messages it sounds if I have worked it all trough, but I am
dreaming of it at night, and sometimes a lot of doubts are my share too.
I try to listen to them and give my support. We also find a lot of
friendship and support in our birthcentre, especially in the postnatal
talkgroup. It's amazing how the other mothers are acting towards the mother.
It gives a very good feeling.
On the operation it's not only the matter of survival but also the question
on quality of life. They forsay that if the baby would survive surgery, he
has to stay for at least 2 years in the hospital and will have a lot of
operations during his life.
I hope we can give the baby love and warmth and I hope that the parents will
afterwards have a warm feeling about it, without doubts of having acted
well.
Warm greetings
Lieve
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