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Dear Jan and Other Readers,
Yes, in my area women are not necessarily induced
at 38 weeks because of isolation from a base hospital,
but are often heavily given the "what if" scenarios
by specialists, so that they may be induced early.
"Oh Mrs S. you've got a BIG baby there! And you're a long
way from home aren't you!"
So the new mother starts to
worry..............
e.g. What if it gets even
bigger?
What if the
waters break and the baby comes quickly??
What
if we have to drive the 1 plus hours in the night? in a storm? in a lot of
pain?
What if I'm
not in established labour and they want to send me home? etc. etc
These kinds of concerns eat away
at her confidence, she is uncomfortable, tired and
vulnerable........
The decision for a woman in this
situation lies between what seems convenient and controlled
(induction), and what is a venture into the
unknown (spontaneous labour). We rural midwives
have to work HARD at these times to convince women of their abilities and their
rights. And sometimes we do.......
And sometimes......... she decides that
the 'safest' way is to be induced (because the doctor said so), and all that good and positivity and confidence in
herself is lost,
and the midwife too feels defeated.
Sorry for the sob story but a very similar
scenario has happened today............
Cheers
Mary Doyle
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