RE: [ozmidwifery] Breastfeeding

[Shaughn Leach]

Mike I use a doll and sometimes a knitted breast to demonstrate along with Rebecca Glover’s pamphlet “The Key to Successful Breastfeeding” which gives mothers another visual image.  Rebecca’s DVD – Follow Me Mum -  is also fantastic because you can pause it anywhere you want to get a really closer look.   If you are with her you can stop it and explain details or watch a section again.  I very rarely feel that I need to ‘do it’ for the mother.  Antenatally the mothers can use dolls – not quite like a real baby but the best we can do J  Spending time with another breastfeeding woman seems to be a good idea and might be really useful – perhaps a few ABA meetings antenatally. Barb I think your idea of lots of skin to skin contact if she is open to this would be a fantastic start for her – if she feels she can cope with the closeness. Take care Shaughn   From: owner-ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au [mailto:owner-ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au] On Behalf Of Mike & Lindsay Kennedy Sent: Friday, 13 October 2006 6:18 AM To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Breastfeeding   I would assume that a hands off approach to assisting this woman with breastfeeding would be of benefit. What techniques do others use in the early postnatal period to assist with attachment, positioning etc without manhandling? (excuse the pun) What methods Can be used antenatally to prepare her. Spending time with another breastfeeding woman springs to mind. rgds mike On 10/12/06, Barbara Glare & Chris Bright <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Hi,   I wonder if some talking through, some info and the importance of skin to skin contact after birth could help here.  This may be related to previous sexual abuse, but then again, maybe not.  Many survivors of sexual abuse find that breastfeeding can be extremely healing, and a way of reclaiming back their bodies.   Men handling my breasts doesn't make me feel ill as such, but I hate the sensation.   It gives me the fingernails scraped on the chalkboard feeling.  In some cultures (apparently) men are considered imature and unmanly if they want to play with breasts.   On the other hand, I have breastfed 4 children beautifully for over 13 years.  They can suck, knead and cuddle to their heart's content - I love it! (though nipple twiddling is rather annoying)   So there may be many reasons for not liking your breasts being touched and it may help to know other women feel the same and still go on to breastfeed.   Barb ----- Original Message ----- From: Janet Fraser To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au Sent: Thursday, October 12, 2006 11:42 AM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Breastfeeding   I've seen this before and it was indeed related to sexual abuse. Fortunately the woman involved was keen that her issues didn't end up impacting negatively on the life of her baby so she went for counselling and was able to work through her stuff enough to bf. How sad that our abusers are able to reach through us to our children like this. J ----- Original Message ----- From: Andrea Bilcliff To: Ozmidwifery Sent: Thursday, October 12, 2006 11:05 AM Subject: [ozmidwifery] Breastfeeding   I'm posting this on behalf of a birth attendant who has contacted me. She will be supporting a woman soon who has for want of a better term, 'breast issues'.   The woman really wants to breastfeed but the thought of it makes her feel ill. She hates it when her partner touches her breasts. The birth attendant is not sure whether this is related to previous sexual abuse or not.   I've never come across this situation before and wondered if others had experience of this and what helped the women?   Thanks, Andrea Bilcliff -- My photos online @ http://community.webshots.com/user/mike1962nz My Group online @ http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PSP_for_Photographers New Photo site@ Mike - http://mikelinz.dotphoto.com Lindsay - Http://likeminz.dotphoto.com "Life is a sexually transmitted condition with 100% mortality and birth is as safe as it gets." Unknown