On 4/15/2013 11:19 AM, Bill wrote:
On 15/04/2013 10:05 AM, Walt wrote:
Hi y'all,

I've photographed two weddings over the past two weekends for friends of mine, which is keeping me pretty busy -- but I digress.

The first wedding I did involved a young lady who had to have her arm amputated below the elbow. She's not at all self-conscious about it, but I can't help feeling like I ought to crop strategically on the images where the amputation might be distracting to others who might view the photos. But, at the same time, I'm not sure how she would feel about it -- that she might take it as a comment on her appearance that I'd intentionally try to hide the amputation.

Given all the experience on this list, I can't imagine I'm the first person to encounter something along those lines. So, I figured I'd ask you guys what the best practice is in such situations.

I'd appreciate any advice anyone might have.

Thanks!

-- Walt

If she isn't self conscious about it, discuss it with her. You hopefully shot enough different pictures that you can give her a mix of images where her lack of an arm isn't noticeable in some of them without doing potentially clumsy cropping. Consider also that anyone looking at her pictures already knows she is missing a limb, and probably won't be all that bothered anyway.

bill

Thanks, Bill.

I did get a good mix of shots, and of course, getting the amputation in some of them was unavoidable -- dancing, hugging friends &relatives, etc.

I guess the best thing to do would be to sit down with her as you said. It's just a bit awkward to raise the matter for me, even though she isn't self-conscious at all -- something I should just get over, I suppose.

Thanks again!

-- Walt

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