very good comments mala and very good points as well. i just wanna elaborate the last para of your comments (see below):
--- Nirmala Many <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > By the way, I think we dont even have girl president > in PPI as now:) *** to my knowledge, none of girls ever submitted her candidacy to be PPI president. i, especially, will be so glad if there's one. i think guys take all the duties as far as PPI goes, except for some few things like cooking, etc which taken up by girls (not all the time though, Habib even took up this task too!) > > MG & Qisai, plz take this into account - sometimes > guys are also not ready and welcomed to 'bold girls' > including the brilliant guys. *** yes, u r right. some guys, especially those from 'rural' areas (or with rural heart) still have "male dominant" pre-occupation in the heads. but, insofar as India goes i havent found one. Be honest, guys prefer > to have obidient, feminine, irrebelous girls than > intellectual, determined & independent girls as > their > wives. *** this is another matter. but, as far as im concerned i tend to differ with your view. i even looking forward to find this kinda girl as my wife(u know very well, im kinda 'dog' type of guy. :> ) on one condition that the qualities of girl u mentioned not combined with flirtitious kind of behaviour. nobody like to be cheated, dont u think? generally speaking, guys who feels insecure and not so confindet of his own ability tend to behave like what u just mentioned. > They say "its nice to have smart girls as > partners/friends but not as wives". Guys feel > insecured having a challeging woman, they will say > "why u're so bold, u're a girl, u have to be > obident, > u're my wife now". ***i've illucidated this point above. >Thats's may be why Izam often > call > me "galak", i wonder if im really galak. *** lol. 'galak' in izam's terms could mean "challenging" and therefore "interesting". :) >Oh plz MG > knows how caring i'm:) *** i do. u have shown undoubted loyalty and faithfulness to ur partner. and that what really counts. some guys, as i mentioned above, sometimes dont like 'tomboy' girls because of feeling insecure of being cheated (in some cases, girls just too weak to resist other guys temptatation to flirt). once girl has proven herself that she has undoubted love and faithfulness to one guy only, everything gonna be ok. cheers up, Mario Gagho Agra University www.ppi-india.org --------- A WINNER works harder than a loser and has more time. A LOSER is always "too busy" to do what is necessary. __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Take a look at donorschoose.org, an excellent charitable web site for anyone who cares about public education! http://us.click.yahoo.com/1gzaND/8WnJAA/HwKMAA/igXolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> _________________________________________________________________________ Mhs/Masy. indoindia diharapkan untuk selalu melihat diskusi harian di http://www.ppi-india.da.ru dan situs resmi PPI http://www.ppi-india.org ========================================================================== Catatan penting: 1- Harap tdk. memposting berita, kecuali yg berkenaan dg masyarakat/mahasiswa/alumni India 2- Arsip milis: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ppi-india ; 3- HP Ketua PPI (Jusman): 09810646659 ; Sekjen PPI(Mukhlis): 09897407326 4- KBRI Delhi(11)26110693;26118642; 26118647 5- KJRI Mumbai (022)3868678;3800940;3891255 Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ppi-india/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
