Mas MG, again thanks for the response, its really nice
and ehm u made my day:)

I'd like to comment few lines as follows: 

--- Mario Gagho <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> one condition that the qualities of girl u mentioned
> not combined with flirtitious kind of behaviour.
> nobody like to be cheated, dont u think? 

> some guys, as i mentioned above, sometimes
> dont like 'tomboy' girls because of feeling insecure
> of being cheated (in some cases, girls just too weak
> to resist other guys temptatation to flirt). once
> girl
> has proven herself that she has undoubted love and
> faithfulness to one guy only, everything gonna be
> ok. 

*** Oh plz, it's not only girls but guys are also
prone to other girls's temptation. U can calculate how
many girls being distrust/disloyal and respectively
how many guys do so and just compare between the two,
u'll find that anyhow guys are more distrust than
girls, believe me. If a girl cheats simply because she
is a cheater, it isn't because she's tomboy, feminine
or intelligent or whatsoever. I believe that if she's
really in love with a guy, she will maintain herself
gracefuly and irresistible by any other guy, she won't
do that. But if she betrays, it means because she
doesnt love him or else she's just a distrust person.
So, i think we have to be fair, we have to put the
case in such a proper way. Both guys and girls can be
disloyal, that depend on person to person.  

> i do. u have shown undoubted loyalty and
> faithfulness to ur partner. and that what really
> counts.

*** thanks alot of being honest:) personally, if i
love a guy, i love him for keeps, not for sake. Its
beautiful to be a faithful and loyal person. But the
problem is very difficult to find "mr.right" in this
weird world. 

Salam,
Mala

--- Mario Gagho <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> very good comments mala and very good points as
> well.
> i just wanna elaborate the last para of your
> comments
> (see below):
> 
> --- Nirmala Many <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> 
> > 
> > By the way, I think we dont even have girl
> president
> > in PPI as now:)
> 
> *** to my knowledge, none of girls ever submitted
> her
> candidacy to be PPI president. i, especially, will
> be
> so glad if there's one. i think guys take all the
> duties as far as PPI goes, except for some few
> things
> like cooking, etc which taken up by girls (not all
> the
> time though, Habib even took up this task too!) 
>  
> > 
> > MG & Qisai, plz take this into account - sometimes
> > guys are also not ready and welcomed to 'bold
> girls'
> > including the brilliant guys.
> 
> *** yes, u r right. some guys, especially those from
> 'rural' areas (or with rural heart) still have "male
> dominant" pre-occupation in the heads. but, insofar
> as
> India goes i havent found one.
> 
>  Be honest, guys prefer
> > to have obidient, feminine, irrebelous girls than
> > intellectual, determined & independent girls as
> > their
> > wives.
> 
> *** this is another matter. but, as far as im
> concerned i tend to differ with your view. i even
> looking forward to find this kinda girl as my wife(u
> know very well, im kinda 'dog' type of guy. :> ) on
> one condition that the qualities of girl u mentioned
> not combined with flirtitious kind of behaviour.
> nobody like to be cheated, dont u think? 
> 
> generally speaking, guys who feels insecure and not
> so
> confindet of his own ability tend to behave like
> what
> u just mentioned.
> 
> > They say "its nice to have smart girls as
> > partners/friends but not as wives". Guys feel
> > insecured having a challeging woman, they will say
> > "why u're so bold, u're a girl, u have to be
> > obident,
> > u're my wife now". 
> 
> ***i've illucidated this point above.
> 
> >Thats's may be why Izam often
> > call
> > me "galak", i wonder if im really galak. 
> 
> *** lol. 'galak' in izam's terms could mean
> "challenging" and therefore "interesting". :)
> 
> >Oh plz MG
> > knows how caring i'm:) 
> 
> *** i do. u have shown undoubted loyalty and
> faithfulness to ur partner. and that what really
> counts. some guys, as i mentioned above, sometimes
> dont like 'tomboy' girls because of feeling insecure
> of being cheated (in some cases, girls just too weak
> to resist other guys temptatation to flirt). once
> girl
> has proven herself that she has undoubted love and
> faithfulness to one guy only, everything gonna be
> ok. 
> 
> cheers up,
> 
> Mario Gagho
> Agra University
> www.ppi-india.org
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> necessary.
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