John Harvey wrote: > Sorry to hear of your loss Kris. I found it helpful to dwell on the good > times after my dad died. My dad has been gone for about 5 years now. I think > of him a lot. It was strange, right after his death, I'd be thinking about > something and have a notion to call him to bounce it off him, then it would > come back to me that he wasn't there anymore. I was blessed to have my dad > for my hero though. I loved him and he loved me, and we knew each other > would do anything for the other. I was glad he died in his sleep and didn't > wind up in a nursing home or worse. He had congestive heart failure, but he > still wore out 3 pacemakers before dying at the age of 76. > > I hope you had as good a relationship with your mom.
I did the same thing with loved ones in the past, John, where I'd spend time with them or at least have talked with them in the past 2 weeks. It makes it much easier and less of a "I wish I would have..." scenario. The good times/memories of the past really help to pull you through. _______________________________________________ Post Messages to: [email protected] Subscription Maintenance: http://leafe.com/mailman/listinfo/profox OT-free version of this list: http://leafe.com/mailman/listinfo/profoxtech Searchable Archive: http://leafe.com/archives/search/profox This message: http://leafe.com/archives/byMID/profox/[EMAIL PROTECTED] ** All postings, unless explicitly stated otherwise, are the opinions of the author, and do not constitute legal or medical advice. This statement is added to the messages for those lawyers who are too stupid to see the obvious.
