Bob Calco wrote:
>>> No, he meant that you've missed the point for so long that you have 
>>> even forgotten how it looks like.
>>> You should have a picture to look at and sigh whenever you miss it.
>>>       
>
> There is something uncharacteristically sentimental in the way you drew that
> analogy that I did miss originally. Obviously you're relating "the point" to
> the many women in your past whom you would forget if you didn't have any
> pictures of them. 
>
> That "the point" reminds you of this is almost Freudian.
>
>   
And here I was, thinking Christians didn't like Freud. :-)

>> About the "self-image is challenged" all I can say is I've never seen
>> somebody take such harsh judgment based on so little information. 
>>     
>
> You're obviously not the introspective sort. Do you read any of your own
> posts before you whisk them off?
>   
Never! But I'm not Christian and therefore do not strive to render the 
other cheek. :-)

>> And I
>> thought Jesus said something about it, but maybe I'm wrong.
>>     
>
> Point taken. I'm by no means perfect, either. Just seemed a rather obvious
> inference based on knowing you in the admittedly limited (but not exactly
> casual) way that this forum permits.
>   
So Jesus said that if it was a "rather obvious inference" then it was 
ok? What about casting the first stone? :-)

> Hmm. To paraphrase your sensitive, non-judgmental advice to Pete, maybe
> she's not the problem, maybe you are?
>   
Oh rest assured, we both are! That's why we don't live together any more 
but are still in somewhat friendly terms. :-)

> Maybe just running to new sexual conquests in casual relationships that make
> you feel like a conquering stallion is a sign of a deeper problem in who and
> what you are, whereas committed relationships bring inner demons out in ways
> that cause you to be afraid of yourself?
>   
Mmmm......... no. Not at all. Any normal man could have the same 
conquests, it does not make me feel anything special (remember it's only 
three women in two months, it's not a different woman every day). :-)

> I'm not judging, I'm just sayin'...
>   
LOL
Luckily  Jesus said nothing about hypocrisy or you and your priests 
would be out of a job. ;-)

>> You
>> see, I abhor of  people who abuse their strength or take advantage of
>> the weak, so I could not stay. 
>>     
>
> Blaming her for your violent reactions is not very mature for a man already
> at the big five-oh.
>   
God! Is my english so bad? I meant I abhorred MY abuse of strength, and 
that's why I did not like who I was at her side. You know, eliminate the 
cause of temptation and you eliminate the sin, your church has used that 
a lot. :-)

> She could have been the TV. Women with "battered wives syndrome" typically
> don't get it till it's too late. They keep wanting to reconcile, taking
> blame for their beloved's violent outbursts, who is altogether too happy to
> oblige in displacing the blame.
>   
Well mate, if you can't tell the difference between a TV and a person....
And the "battered wives" stuff is just another lowly blow, never hit ANY 
woman and remember I left because of the episode, so you won't be able 
to tag me with that. :-)

> For the record, I don't condemn you at all Ricardo. I know that God loves
> you just as unconditionally and undeservedly as he does me or anybody else.
> As we breathe, there is hope for us to find real peace and joy.
>
> All things considered I just thought it was rich that you and Jean were
> lecturing me about getting some kind of point when I had not long ago
> witnessed your harsh dumping on Pete on the subject of luck with women.
We are on different wavelengths. I don't give a damn about Pete, I just 
dislike his usual misogynous  speech, so whenever he gets on with it I  
try to make him feel uncomfortably. It's like training a dog, he'll 
finally get it (or we'll know his intellect is below dog's).... oh sorry 
here you go :-)
> I do apologize for sounding harsher than I intended 
Apology accepted. :-)

> (I don't really want to
> sound any harsher than you do)
An eye for an eye? I thought you were Christian, not Jewish. Try reading 
the NEW testament instead of the OLD one. :-)

> , and didn't mean to wound you in any ways we
> aren't accustomed to wounding each other in this enlightened forum. ;)
>   
Oh poor darling! Are you telling us that all this was just to get even? 
Just because I wounded your feelings in the past? :-)
LOL! :-)




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