talak lewat sms memang legal secara islam. bisa juga lewat titip pesen "tolong bilang sama si a, gw ceraikan die gitu! " kalimat ini juga sah dan legal dalam islam. bahkan dengan kalimat "pulang sana ke orang tua mu! " ucapan inipun adalah sah dan legal. atau afdolnya begini, cukup bilang " anu . . . dengan ini saya ceraikan kamu dengan talak satu . . . " kalimat ini sudah sah secara islam.
bukan mengada ada. tapi itulah adanya. --- In [email protected], Gabriella Rantau <gkrantau@...> wrote: > > Mnrt pengacara Aceng talak melalui SMS itu legal dlm Islam. Memangnya ketika > Nabi Junjungan menceraikan salah satu bininya, beliau juga ketik Talak lewat > Ponsel? > > Ada2 saja sodara2 kita Muslim ini! > > Gabriella > > > > > > ________________________________ > From: Bukan Pedanda <bukan.pedanda@...> > To: [email protected] > Sent: Thursday, 6 December 2012 2:55 PM > Subject: [proletar] CNN: Divorce by text message sparks bizarre legal battle > in Indonesia > > >  > > Peristiwa cere liwat SMS itu ternyata samp juga ke CNN.. > > -- > > [CNN] > Divorce by text message sparks bizarre legal battle in Indonesia > By Kathy Quiano, CNN > December 6, 2012 -- Updated 0627 GMT (1427 HKT) > > CNN.com > > Jarkarta, Indonesia (CNN) -- The marriage lasted four days and ended in > divorce via text message, from the 40-year-old local politician to his > 17-year-old wife. > > Aceng Fikri claimed his young bride Fani Oktara was not a virgin, as she had > claimed, so he decided to end the union, his lawyer Ujang Suja'I said. > > She denied it, and in turn accused Aceng -- who is the head of the district > of Garut in West Java -- of spreading baseless accusations against her. Her > lawyer Danny Suliwisjaya told CNN that Aceng had deceived his client into > marriage. > > Aceng caused a stir after his July wedding to Fani. Although 16 is the legal > age for marriage in Indonesia, Aceng was already married with children. Few > Muslims practice polygamy, and while it is not against the law, Indonesian > civil servants are also prohibited from taking on second spouses under strict > regulations governing their private lives. > > A photo of the alleged wedding ceremony was posted on the Internet. Religious > weddings are common in Indonesia but marriages need to be civilly and legally > registered. > > Aceng claimed divorcing his wife through text messaging is allowed under > Islamic Sharia law, his lawyer said. > > Public outrage over the marriage, and subsequent divorce, came after Fani > reported Aceng to the police on Monday, asking that he be charged with > falsifying his marital status, fraud, defamation and unpleasant conduct. > > Police are still investigating Fani's complaint; as yet, there are no charges > against Aceng. > > There have since been daily protests in Garut, calling for his resignation. > > The girl's lawyer, Danny Suliswijaya, told CNN she and her family decided to > go public only after months of asking Aceng for an apology. > > Suliswijaya said Aceng told Fani that he was a widower. > > "He said he married Fani as his only wife, so he cheated and failed to tell > the truth," Suliswijaya said. The lawyer claims Aceng also reneged on > promises to send her to university and to the minor Hajj in Mecca. > > The embattled official apologized late Monday but stood by his version of the > story. "If what I did was wrong, even though it was allowed by Islamic law, > then I deeply apologize to my family and my ex-wife," he told reporters. > Ujang told CNN they will report Fani and her family to the police, seeking > charges of fraud and extortion. > > "Aceng accused her of not being a virgin on the second day of their marriage > and she didn't deny it. That's why Aceng decided to end the marriage and send > her back to her parents," Aceng's lawyer said. Fani's attorney insists the > accusations are baseless. > > According to his lawyer, Aceng gave the girl's family 43 million rupiah > (roughly $4,000) for her university fees and the minor Hajj trip. He says the > girl's family agreed to the settlement but continued to contact Aceng for > more money, "blackmailing the district head." Fani's attorney denies Aceng's > claims, and says all his client wanted was an apology. > > Indonesian President Susilo has ordered the Home Affairs Ministry to summon > Aceng and investigate the matter. On Wednesday, Garut's local legislative > council also decided to create a special committee to look into Aceng's case. > > His lawyer said the case needed "to go through legal channels," and that his > client's potential removal as district chief was not imminent: "the council > has to wait for the results of the police investigation before making a > decision on Aceng's dismissal." > > Women and children's rights activists, however, welcome the investigations > and the public outcry over the case. > > Muhammad Ihsan, secretary of the Commission for the Protection of Indonesian > Children or KPAI, told CNN the regent head may be held liable for a sexual > offense, if it is proven that the regent head deceived the teenage girl. > > The commission says human trafficking, the illegal sex trade and the > exploitation of women are rampant, particularly in the province of West Java. > > In not a few cases, parents or relatives give up their teenage daughters for > marriage, in exchange for money. > > Ihsan said that when the facts of this case become clearer, it could > highlight well-known and common practices of exploiting young women. > > "If a public official is allowed to get away with behavior like this, then > the public will think this is acceptable", said Ihsan. > > Rudy Madanir contributed to this report. > 17 > Comments » > > Print > Email > More sharing > > © 2012 Cable News Network. 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