Hi Lori,
 
Thanks for your email, I really appreciate you being so open and honest with me, it really does!!! 
 
Well the situation with my boyfriend has now changed, Nathan, the guy I was with wanted a lot more than what I want right now - sex being one of the subjects.  Anyway I told him things aren't as straight forward as they seem and he didn't like it so I finished with him.
 
Good news though is that I've met another guy called Steve, who I think might be the one!  His name is Steve, his 12 years older than me and I met him whilst doing the Sittingbourne carnival!  The beauty is, is that his a paramedic, and he understands that things are tricky, but his attitude is that he loves me and that he wants to stick around.  If I can successfully have sex fantastic, but if I can't then we will talk about other ways around it.  The difference is, is that I feel really comfortable around him, and I get butterflies everytime I'm about to see him or speak to him!  Was you like that when you first met Tod?  Did he have a similar attitude as Steve has got?
 
Take care,
 
Love Smurf xxx

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