HI everyone,
Tony I hope you're EVACUATING as I write. Get the heck out of dodge. Just so that everyone knows my post to Tony was meant to be private, sorry wheel if I offended you.
Anyway, after two months the mortgage company we were working with has screwed us over big time. They strung us along all of this time, apparently the loan was turned down over a month ago, but no one bothered to tell us. They submitted it to another lender and MISREPRESENTED us and our intentions and it was turned down again. This happened after they told us we were closing the following day. Things were bought, bills were paid off, in anticipation of getting the loan. I have NEVER been told I was closing on a loan and then have it go sour. You just don't do that to people. I have written letters to the Mortgage Brokers Assoc, the BBB and a homeowner referral list. I called the corporate office and they of course, are on the side of the broker. I'm beginning to lose faith in people, at this point I can't count on two hands how many things have gone wrong because people don't do their jobs honestly, simply don't do the job, or discriminate because I'm disabled, gay and poor.
Soooo, we have to start all over with the loan process. I'm doing my best to keep my ex's attorney at bay. Just so that everyone knows...this would not be happening had I been able to marry. Our "partnership agreement" in the end meant nothing. Now I am suffering, and am threatened with losing my van again.
Thanks for your support everyone, remember my story is that of countless others in this country we SHARE and call the freest in the world.
peace out,
Riv
