River,
I'm so sorry to hear what has happened with your loan. I knew you were
really excited when you thought everything was OK. Makes my problems seem
so petty. In my life when things hit rock bottom, something comes through
for me. I hope that a solution is right around the corner for you.
If you lose faith in people then they win. Try to keep your head up.
Stacy
"People who hate you do not win unless you hate them. Then you destroy
yourself"
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Friday, August 13, 2004 9:33
AM
Subject: [QUAD-L] Van update etc...
HI everyone,
Tony I hope you're EVACUATING as I
write. Get the heck out of dodge.
Just so that everyone knows
my post to Tony was meant to be private,
sorry wheel if I offended
you.
Anyway, after two months the mortgage company we were working with
has
screwed us over big time. They strung us along all of this time,
apparently the loan was turned down over a month ago, but no one
bothered to tell us. They submitted it to another lender and
MISREPRESENTED us and our intentions and it was turned down again. This
happened after they told us we were closing the following day.
Things
were bought, bills were paid off, in anticipation of getting the
loan.
I have NEVER been told I was closing on a loan and then have
it go
sour. You just don't do that to people. I have written
letters to the
Mortgage Brokers Assoc, the BBB and a homeowner referral
list. I
called the corporate office and they of course, are on the
side of the
broker. I'm beginning to lose faith in people, at
this point I can't
count on two hands how many things have gone wrong
because people don't
do their jobs honestly, simply don't do the job, or
discriminate
because I'm disabled, gay and poor.
Soooo, we have to
start all over with the loan process. I'm doing my
best to keep my
ex's attorney at bay. Just so that everyone
knows...this would not
be happening had I been able to marry. Our
"partnership agreement"
in the end meant nothing. Now I am suffering,
and am threatened with
losing my van again.
Thanks for your support everyone, remember my
story is that of
countless others in this country we SHARE and call the
freest in the
world.
peace
out,
Riv
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