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That's funny Houston this is the first I've heard of a-sexual in my 5 short years as a quad.
It does seem to me that a para would have a better sex life than a quad though after all they have a better "grip" than quads do lol!
Just a little light humor folks while discussing this sensitive issue.
Mark
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Date: Thursday, January 06, 2005 6:13:57 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration/sensitive
Mark
Like when I was in Partners class a few yrs back. Was the 1st time that I�d heard A-sexual which I had to ask the meaning of it 2 be sure. Now my cousin that�s a Para which was pretty much 1 of few people with a disability that I was in contact with growing up at the time I was an AB. He always had girlfriends had 2 children by 2 different women than got married and had 2 kids with his wife. So I�d never thought about sexual issues with paralization until I got paralyzed than found out that I�d been way off by a-s-s-u-m-i-n-g I should�ve been more inquisitive and asked questions back then. I still need 2 do some more research into SCI�s and sex, especially since I�m asked more & more by new SCI�s I�m coming into contact with. I joke my way through it tell them what little I know & what I�ve heard from others. The relationship issue I tell them it�s pretty much the same as life and their injury different with each person.
Houston
On 1/6/05 5:58 PM, "[EMAIL PROTECTED]" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
In a message dated 06/01/2005 18:38:44 GMT Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
Hey Stacy,
I've come to the conclusion that people just don't think we're even interested in a relationship.
Nobody thinks I'm interested in a sex life so no need for a relationship in their eyes.
Mark
It's statements like what Mark said that makes me realise just how lucky I am to have Steve, someone who knows I'm interested, but also knows of my fears and uncertainties and acts with those in minds.
Love Smurf xxx
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