Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration/sensitive
I live in Maryland. I wish maybe I had the spark you do, but I talk
with anyone and everyone. I'm the one that people have to pull away when
they are ready to leave because I am talking. I think that I am an
attractive person, have a great sense of humor and even joke with others about
my chair to make it seem like not a big deal. It's usually
in light of things not being a big deal. I joke about
getting the good spots, I always have a seat when a place is
full, etc. I don't know why it is the way it is. I wish I
knew.
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, January 09, 2005 4:34
PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]
Frustration/sensitive
Stacy,
I
don�t know how each situation is. And maybe it is a little bit easier 4 me 2
get a woman. But until I get over my insecurities I�ll not be able 2 keep 1 :)
Tony is DA MAN with women :) Maybe he can give us all pointers :) I have a
gift of GAB so maybe my conversation and (fake) ever so happy, always in a
great mood attitude gets me in there. :) Stacy where do you live
again?
On 1/8/05 9:33 PM, "Stacy Harim" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:
Well
Houston, I guess you are just different than some of us and women are
drawn to you, however it's not that way with me and I am sure others here
can tell you the same. I have said it so many times, but I'll say it
again. I think I am fairly attractive. I am very outgoing (just
as much as before). I do not let others see me sweat or worry about my
disability. I initiate conversations. I smile at people and have
a positive outlook. I have everything to offer someone as long as it
doesn't include material things. I know this about myself, however it
seems that men don't like girls in chairs because I used to get hit on all
the time and I don't look any different aside from being in a chair.
I�m glad that you can still get women, but that's you and you are a
rare case it seems after talking to others on the
list.
Stacy
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Original Message -----
From: Houston809 <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
; quadlist <mailto:[email protected]>
; Greg <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Saturday, January 08, 2005 7:18
PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]
Frustration/sensitive
Stacy,
I�m not thinking
that it�s really that difficult 2 find a person that�ll be there in
a meaningful relationship. I have some problems but some of them
it�s more me than them. So don�t think that I�m going against
anything I�ve said. But I know that a big part of not having someone
is my doing... It could also be others now sometimez we have 2 step
back (ROLL BACK) and look at ourselves in the mirror. Would I want 2 be
with me if the circumstances were reversed?
Houston
On
1/8/05 1:13 PM, "Stacy Harim" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:
Your
right in the aspect of everyday life. Of course I know that.
The statement was related to relationships. Para's are
still seen as paralyzed. In the aspect of getting looked at
as a sexual being is just as hard for para's to face. To the
opposite sex paralyzed is
paralyzed.
Stacy
----- Original Message -----
From: Greg <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: [email protected]
Sent: Saturday, January 08, 2005 12:20
PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]
Frustration/sensitive
That
statement shouldn't hurt anyone. It's true... Paras have
it easier than quads. Just like a C5 like me has it easier than
a C4. The more moement you have, the more you can do for
yourself. If it's not a fact, than show me someone who
would volunteer to break their spine a few levels
higher.
Greg
"Stacy
I wasn't implying that para's have it easier I was just saying
if I had a good "Grip" I could help
myself!"
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