I live in Kansas Myron,.  I doubt that I would move away from my  family, 
unless it was really a good place to live.  My family doesn't do a  lot for me 
physically, but it's nice to have family around and I am on a fixed  budget and 
I get my care through self-directed care so I don't have money to  travel back 
and forth.
 
 
It is a great idea for those who can afford to do so.  I think it  would be 
great to be in a warmer state.
We have had a horrible winter in  Kansas.  I can't imagine the government 
paying for anything that is that  elaborate!  They haven't yet and the budget 
is 
getting tighter.  I  sure don't like that last e-mail from adapt to cut care 
hours, which would put a  lot of us in nursing homes for sure.  I think you 
often get more funding  when you are going to college?
 
Do a lot of you worry about your future, I sure do.  It's hard to find  PCA's 
on the amount of money they give us through self-directed care and it will  
be even harder as we get older and our needs increase., especially those of us  
without a significant other.  I know that sometimes with a significant  
other, you get less care and that person may not receive payment for their  
services.
 
Can anyone address the issue of how, Money follows the person might change  
anything for those of us on state-funded care will really just provide more  
persons that need to live independently rather than in the institutional  
setting?  Will it just provide extra money to the states for this?.   Will 
money 
directed to institutions be used for persons getting independent  living 
instead?
 
I understand what those are saying about their spouses being caregivers and  
not lovers, just because
of the stress and burnout that a lot of caregivers get.  That is a  another 
topic it is a remarkable couple that can keep the relationship alive in  that 
respect.  They need to write a manual.
 
Sorry I talked about so many different things in one e-mail.



Dana



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