I am not saying anything in particular about this case, but nowadays all
lawyers tell you not to contact the family and offer your condolences or
even say you're sorry.  This is an admission of guilt and can be used
against you in civil cases as well as criminal.

I was indirectly connected with the death of a young girl in my older
community and it broke my heart that I could not tell the mother I was sorry
about what happened.  I was lucky enough to have a friend who was really
good friends with the mother and conveyed my aggravation at not being able
to say what I thought.  We eventually did have a meeting, completely off the
record, and it made me feel considerably better.  I, however, moved from
that community for two primary reasons.  One was financial and another was
because I had to ride by the scene of the accident every time I left my
neighborhood.

My heart goes out to you Danny and to her family.
Quadius


On 5/7/08, [EMAIL PROTECTED] <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
> We all have all had 'lapses of common sense' Danny.  Most times they are
> inconsequential, sometimes we screw ourselves up and sometimes,....   we
> hurt others.  It is truly unfortunate that you hurt someone else so badly.
> Because it was a stupid accident - caused by bad judgment, i think you
> should be let off easy.  BUT because of  the following, --> "In court
> documents they say Espinoza has never contacted them to apologize or even
> expressed remorse." I am curious as to why you haven't contacted the
> family to apologize.  I currently think you are being punished quite
> enough.  GOD speed my friend, I hope the legal system passes you by.  Good
> luck.
> AZDAVE
>
>
>
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Danny Espinoza <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: [email protected]
> Sent: Wed, 7 May 2008 6:10 pm
> Subject: [QUAD-L] The news article
>
>  Well here is news article I said I would post, I just hope it doesn't
> change the way most of you feel about me…..
>
> http://www.bakersfield.com/hourly_news/story/437350.html
>
> Danny Espinoza 25/m/California
> Occupation before accident - Network engineer / SR. Network security
> engineer
> Broke c2,c6,c7 and doner  bone at c2
> TBI from blood going to central cortex from spinal cord
> off a vent "woohoo" however only one diaphragm works right now "due to
> asymmetric SCI"
>
> http://secureminds.ws/
> http://www.myspace.com/dannylnx
>
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