Everybody,
        I'm just TIRED, VERY, VERY TIRED of dealing with this quad shit and ALL 
that is associated with it. I realize that I am luckier than most with my level 
of injury and loooong relationship with my "better half". But I an ready to 
just "check out" and take ALL my pain meeds at once BUT the thing is I might be 
worse off, it might not be enough.  Bobbie

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On Sep 27, 2011, at 12:58 PM, "shirley bell" <[email protected]> wrote:

> Hi Bobbie, what are so down about? I have days when I cant stand my situation 
> any more as well. I cry and feel the loss and it usually passes after a few 
> days. The loss seems worse as the years go on.  It happens more and more as I 
> get older, I think fear of what will happen to me if my husband dies and so 
> on. its hard for us quads for sure. Is your health ok when you are out of 
> bed? Things are much harder for me the last few years, I don't like driving 
> because I don't feel safe getting in and out  of my van and such. I use to be 
> much more independent, going out by myself allot. So, I guess after 34 years 
> I am struggling more as well. I just try and make myself go on and look at 
> the positive things in my life, and there are many. reading is 
> good,especially reading about people who have it harder than we do in some 
> ways makes me more grateful and less full of saddness. keep in touch, I am a 
> good listener and would like to talk to you as well when I get down, just to 
> vent is healing. Talk soon, Shirley
> Best,
> Shirley Bell
> 
> www.ShirleyBellDesigns.com
> ----- Original Message ----- From: "Bobbie Humphreys" <[email protected]>
> To: <[email protected]>
> Sent: Monday, September 26, 2011 11:00 AM
> Subject: [QUAD-L] When your down and out?
> 
> 
> Everybody,
>       I've been REALLY bummed out lately, just can't shake it. I've been 
> getting lost in a GREAT book "The Help" it's a real "page Tunner" I don't 
> want to see ANYBODY or talk on the phone. I really just want to stay in bed 
> but Pete is making me get up - October 3rd we'll be together 29 years!
>  What do you guys do to shake the BAD blues?
> Bobbie
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