Personally, I think you are entitled to your feelings. I hope I'm wrong too. Besides yourself, there are those around you who think more highly of you right now then you do. If group therapy or group counseling is available to you... I would consider it. I know that once women set their minds to do things, ya don't step in their way, but rather strong reasoning might help. I can only wonder what Pete is going thru at this time. I sincerely hope and wish the best for both of you. That being said.. Best Wishes In a message dated 9/28/2011 7:00:49 P.M. Central Daylight Time, [email protected] writes:
Everybody, I'm just TIRED, VERY, VERY TIRED of dealing with this quad shit and ALL that is associated with it. I realize that I am luckier than most with my level of injury and loooong relationship with my "better half". But I an ready to just "check out" and take ALL my pain meeds at once BUT the thing is I might be worse off, it might not be enough. Bobbie Sent from my iPad On Sep 27, 2011, at 12:58 PM, "shirley bell" <[email protected]> wrote: > Hi Bobbie, what are so down about? I have days when I cant stand my situation any more as well. I cry and feel the loss and it usually passes after a few days. The loss seems worse as the years go on. It happens more and more as I get older, I think fear of what will happen to me if my husband dies and so on. its hard for us quads for sure. Is your health ok when you are out of bed? Things are much harder for me the last few years, I don't like driving because I don't feel safe getting in and out of my van and such. I use to be much more independent, going out by myself allot. So, I guess after 34 years I am struggling more as well. I just try and make myself go on and look at the positive things in my life, and there are many. reading is good,especially reading about people who have it harder than we do in some ways makes me more grateful and less full of saddness. keep in touch, I am a good listener and would like to talk to you as well when I get down, just to vent is healing. Talk soon, Shirley > Best, > Shirley Bell > > www.ShirleyBellDesigns.com > ----- Original Message ----- From: "Bobbie Humphreys" <[email protected]> > To: <[email protected]> > Sent: Monday, September 26, 2011 11:00 AM > Subject: [QUAD-L] When your down and out? > > > Everybody, > I've been REALLY bummed out lately, just can't shake it. I've been getting lost in a GREAT book "The Help" it's a real "page Tunner" I don't want to see ANYBODY or talk on the phone. I really just want to stay in bed but Pete is making me get up - October 3rd we'll be together 29 years! > What do you guys do to shake the BAD blues? > Bobbie > > > > > > Sent from my iPad > >
