Great idea from W, Nicki.
I went through a few years like that, especially after my parents died in 2005 (my Mom was Christmas). But now I have grandchildren (whose parents are too self centered and lazy to decorate or buy gifts - shame on my son!). They make Christmas. Their excitement is all I needed. Also, I have an aide this year who LOVES to decorate for the holidays. So, I've been shopping and whistling Christmas Carols and SMILING! Big change for me. I know it may be completely different next year, so I enjoy day by day. Just remember, "this too shall pass". Hopefully, when you have grandchildren, some of the joy will return. If not, come celebrate with me! Thinking of you. Nan ________________________________ From: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> To: [email protected]; [email protected] Sent: Saturday, December 3, 2011 5:34 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Holiday Season Nicki, 15 years is a pivotal period for most teens. Nothing seems logical or worth while when you are 15. Invite a neighbor from the church to help you set up your tree. Best Wishes In a message dated 12/3/2011 4:14:32 P.M. Central Standard Time, [email protected] writes: Anyone else get bummed out during the holiday season? I usually do ok but this year has been bad. Kids are 26 and 15. No one REALLY wanted to put up the tree but my 26 year old, his wife and daughter did it…….not because they wanted to but there was no one else to do it and I practically begged. My 15 year old didn’t want to decorate the tree….but I’m making her. What could have been a fun time is ruined because she said decorating the tree is stupid, etc (she was 19 months when I broke my neck so not like she’s never had to help) ………..I asked her if she knew had badly I wish I could do it ALL by myself. > >I’m not putting up a tree next year and will be buying for foster children >who are lucky to get anything. > >Thanks for letting me vent. > >Nicki
