That seems creepy to me, If I were you I would just ask her why she did it and tell her you you were uncomfortable. I fortunately have some feeling, but if I didn't I would not let my aides know that. A long time ago an aide did try something extremely innappropriate and from that time on I swore to let every aide in the future know I have feeling. Lets us know how she explains it.
Meredith ----- Original Message ----- From: "KK" <[email protected]> To: [email protected], "eric" <[email protected]>, "Lainie Batte" <[email protected]>, "MS Quads" <[email protected]> Sent: Wednesday, September 12, 2012 7:21:33 AM Subject: [QUAD-L] Is this inappropriate touching? I am having a tough time deciding if this is wrong or I am being crazy. I have Multiple Sclerosis. I am paralyzed from the chest down except for my right arm. No feeling at all. I also can not speak. This aide has been with me about 2 months, M-F 5 hours a day. Yesterday we went outside on the front porch & she was talking to a neighbor. Suddenly she took my keys & ran them across my feet. I did nothing. Didn't feel it but saw her movements. She smiled & did it over & over again. It was like she did not believe I could not feel it. Now I feel this was inappropriate but not sure what she expected to get out of her actions. It has made me feel uncomfortable & dread her coming today. Maybe I am being weird. What do you think about it? KK
