Hi my name is Toby I'm from Columbus Nebraska I'm a c4 complete ,I only have a shrug in my shoulders am having a hard time right now finding a purpose to go on!!! I don't know if I should go into a nursing home or what to do!!! My care giver for the last 15 years has been their 24/7 365 days a year has about had it with me and I haven't really had to depend on anybody but her for a long time!!!! I'm scared more than anything but I don't know what to do ??????
Sent from my iPad On Sep 12, 2012, at 11:22 PM, Nan <[email protected]> wrote: > You are not being "weird" - she is! My call is ... Totally inappropriate! > > Nan > > From: ~LittleQuad~ <[email protected]> > To: Wheelchair <[email protected]>; [email protected]; Quad-list post > <[email protected]> > Sent: Wednesday, September 12, 2012 1:36 PM > Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Is this inappropriate touching? > > Yes, everything W said! Except the crazy part!! > Lq > > > ~LittleQuad~ > Sent from my BlackBerry > > -----Original Message----- > From: [email protected] > Date: Wed, 12 Sep 2012 13:17:44 > To: <[email protected]>; <[email protected]>; <[email protected]>; > <[email protected]>; <[email protected]> > Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Is this inappropriate touching? > > > You are crazy KK, but that is another issue (smiling) > > In the world of law, that action would be considered, assault. If the > person touched you again after any sign of disapproval, those actions > would be considered, assault and battery. This alone would lead to > police intervention, a report, an arrest and money bond. The case > would have to be heard by the court and a judgement. These actions > would also lead to additional hearings, by the person's employment. > These types of actions should not be tolerated by anyone, verbal or > none verbal. > Best Wishes > > -----Original Message----- > From: KK <[email protected]> > To: quad-list <[email protected]>; eric <[email protected]>; > Lainie Batte <[email protected]>; MS Quads > <[email protected]> > Sent: Wed, Sep 12, 2012 9:21 am > Subject: [QUAD-L] Is this inappropriate touching? > > I am having a tough time deciding if this is wrong or I am being crazy. > > I have Multiple Sclerosis. I am paralyzed from the chest down except > for my right arm. No feeling at all. I also can not speak. This aide > has been with me about 2 months, M-F 5 hours a day. Yesterday we went > outside on the front porch & she was talking to a neighbor. Suddenly > she took my keys & ran them across my feet. I did nothing. Didn't > feel it but saw her movements. She smiled & did it over & over again. > It was like she did not believe I could not feel it. > > Now I feel this was inappropriate but not sure what she expected to get > out of her actions. It has made me feel uncomfortable & dread her > coming today. > > Maybe I am being weird. What do you think about it? > > KK > > > >
