Ahhhh, a voice of sensibility and reason in a storm of hot-winded opinion

> "D.J. Holland" wrote:
> 
> Perhaps I'm wrong, but I see a different issue, here.
> 
> Hebrews 13:17 says:
>          "Obey your leaders and submit to their authority.  They keep watch
> over you as men who must give an
>         account.  Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden,
> for that would be of no advantage
>         to you."
> 
> I don't see anywhere that you submit only to the parts you agree with, like,
> appreciate, understand or want to.  We as leaders have an example to set
> before the boys we minister to.  Do we teach them to submit, or to argue and
> criticize and condemn policies set by leaders?  If they don't agree with
> policy, there is a way to change it from within.  Or they can leave the
> program and elsewhere.  To change National policy on Outpost, sectional,
> district, regional or any other level is to initiate a different program NOT
> Royal Rangers as set by the National Staff.  There is a time and a place to
> debate and initiate change.  Rangernet is not necessarily the place.  Although
> I love Rangernet, those in high places who make policy are probably not
> lurking, or involved.  Therefore, this is not the forum for continuing to
> flagellate a deceased equine (beating a dead horse).  There is also an
> attitude and Spirit in which it should be done.  A defensive, *stop me if you
> can* attitude is not the way to change things.  The place is within Royal
> Rangers, I do not know the steps, but I remember they were given here a while
> ago.  The attitude is one of compassion for the ministry, and the boys to whom
> it is aimed.  What is best for them, are we doing the best, and how can we
> move to where we are doing the best that God would have us do?
> 
> If, in your local outpost, you had certain standards, for example, If you
> don't help with preparations (show up at outpost meetings on Wed., raise
> funds, learn skills needed for an event, etc.) then you don't participate in a
> certain event.  What would the reaction be from the boys if a couple of kids
> showed up for an event, KNEW the standards ahead of time, and expected to
> participate?  What the reaction if they were allowed to participate?  Of
> course, this would *never* happen on the local level . . . only the national
> level <grin>.  Would you as the leader of this event continue to serve in this
> capacity with joy?  (see above scripture)  Would you realistically expect the
> other boys to forget this neglect of and lack of respect for the standards and
> go on with the program?  If this continues to happen, would you really be
> surprised when the boys who do the prep finally get tired of it and go
> elsewhere (youth, for example)?
> 
> It seems to me if a commander, outpost, sectional, regional or any other
> position, doesn't agree with the policies set forth by National Office, they
> should strive from within to change the policies.  Or they should turn in
> their khakis and go elsewhere.
> 
> Personally, am I perfect?  NOT ON YOUR BEST DAY!!
> Do I agree with all policies in the manual?  Probably not.
> Do I follow them?  I strive to.  If I, out of ignorance, perhaps, don't, I try
> to fix it as soon as I realize I do something against policy.
> Does it irk me when long-time commanders don't follow policy now, when they
> have eons ago?  Very much so.
> Do I speak out against it and try to change things?  Not as much as I should,
> I guess.
> Does that bother me?  Again, very much so.  Our pastor said it last week from
> the pulpit, "to know right and to not do it is . . . sin.".
> 
> (Coming back to add a little here.  My wife, who grew up trying to convince
> her parents to move to Australia so she could be a Royal Ranger, read this and
> gave me some thinkin' points.)  Jesus came to give us freedom.  Not freedom
> from the Law, as the Ten Commandments would no longer apply.  Rather, the Ten
> Commandments are still the Commandments, not Suggestions, Guidelines, or
> Recommendations, etc.  We have freedom from the consequences of breaking the
> law.  The consequence of DEATH.  There are Jews who worship Jesus for what He
> said He was, the Son of God.  They still observe Jewish Laws/Torah
> (not necessarily laws given by *religious* men of the Jewish faith) because
> that is the law given by God, and Jesus Himself said "I come not to abolish
> the law, but to fulfill it."  We as Gentile Christians are not bound to those
> laws because we are not Jewish Christians.  Neither are we to force our
> personal beliefs on others and cause them to stumble.  However, law is law.
> God has place authority over us to make, change, revise and uphold the law (we
> call them policies, today).  However, when we agreed to be leaders in Royal
> Rangers, we knew the policies and agreed to them.  If we didn't know the
> policies when we signed up, we should've gotten out when we learned of them
> and had a problem with them.
> 
> I have only been part of Rangernet for a couple of months and I have noticed a
> recurring topic.  That is (in my abbreviated words) that National Leaders
> don't know squat!  Policy is wrong.  Women should be allowed to do whatever
> they want in Royal Rangers.  Anyone who disagrees in in danger of being
> criticized or shot down here on Rangernet (possibly elsewhere, judging by
> perceived attitude).  I have seen some try to explain, clarify or defend
> policy and subsequently be shot down by others here.  I also realize I am
> putting myself in this position; the position of being flamed, slammed, shot
> down, criticized and scorned, among others.  And yet, I feel the need to speak
> out, even though I'm not sure I really want to.
> 
> The words of James come to mind:
>             Brothers, do not slander one another.  Anyone who speaks against
> his brother or judges him speaks
>             against the law and judges it.  When you judge the law, you are
> not keeping it, but sitting in
>             judgment on it.  There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who
> is able to save and destroy.
>             But you-who are you to judge your neighbor? (James 4:11-12)
> 
> So, what is the issue here?  National policy or individuals confronting
> others?  Not what I'm seeing.
> 
> Could the issue possibly be our willingness to submit to the authority
> Almighty Y'shua has placed above us?
> 
> Just thinkin' words.
> 
> In His Grip and totally with His love,
> 
> DJ
> 
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "EagleDad" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Sent: Monday, April 15, 2002 1:12 PM
> Subject: Re: [RR] The Ranger Kids Commanders uniform
> 
> >
> > --- Jonathan Trower <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > >
> >   National policy is the issue here,
> > > right?
> >
> > Nope.. *The problem is when individuals confront others in a
> > "official" capacity to enforce something un-published and un-said.
> >
> > Because we all are in the fog about gender issues, some assume they
> > have the right to hunt down a Lady in Khaki and hassle them. That's
> > plain wrong. The other perplexing thing is the twisted logic that
> > permits obvious discrimination, for zero purpose.
> >
> >
> >
> > >
> > >
> > > >Women freely come to serve boys as leaders. Allways at the local
> > > >level they are welcome, and given full respect. They often are the
> > > >helpmates of a Commander, and have sons in the program.
> > >
> > > And they do a wonderful job as leaders. I don't think you would find
> > > much
> > > disagreement here with your statement -- and certainly not from me. I'll
> > >
> > > come back to this statement at the end of my comments. This is also not
> > > the
> > > issue here.
> > >
> > >
> > > >So called "National Policy" a fabrication of upper management being
> > > >stuck between a rock and a "Hard" place, of their own makeing.
> > >
> > > Not so. This may be a poor analogy, but in our denomination, we have
> > > never
> > > allowed boys and girls to go swimming together, right?
> >
> > I don't know...  I remember something about that in 1960 mayby..
> > I also remember have girls hired as Lifesavers at NW Powwow, so
> > the logistices or policies may be spotty!<G>
> >
> >  Why? That's the
> > > same
> > > reason boys, men, and women don't go camping together in Royal Rangers.
> > > Simply put, we have a higher standard than the world does. It may be
> > > O.K.
> > > for secular buckskinning groups, or Boy Scouts, but it's not O.K. for
> > > the
> > > Assemblies of God ministry to boys.
> >
> > Men and Women do go camping togather.
> >
> > But you are right, The Assemblies of God USA and it's prejudeces..
> > are more important than common sence leadership princeipals in place
> > elsewhere even in our own and kindred fellowships.
> >
> >
> >
> > >
> > > It's easy to say that we can easily have separate camping areas and
> > > restroom and shower facilities for ladies on camp-outs, but that's not
> > > always true, especially in areas that Rangers have to camp in. Having
> > > women
> > > on camp-outs introduces all sorts of complexities that distract from the
> > >
> > > main purpose of the camp . . . ministering to the boys. And THAT's what
> > > it's all about.
> >
> > Well, then don't make it an Issue by forming POLICY on it!
> >
> > Let's say a Commander is wheel chair bound.. while it's un-likely
> > that he can rock climb without special gear.. It's also no reason
> > to exclude him from NTC.  My Point is that Women are not a handicap
> > but in fact a additional blessing to leadership. A *Positive and
> > never a *Negitive.  *They ADD and not subtract.
> >
> >
> >
> > >
> > > Let the leadership of the camps focus on the boys,
> >
> > Sorry.. you can't have it all.  The focus is on MEN ministering
> > to whoever shows up. The point of excluding women is to promote
> > Man/Boy relationships for hopefully good reasons.. that I think are
> > *shallow..
> >
> >  and not on the
> > > details
> > > of where the women will be camping, or where their restroom will be, or
> > > worse, having to deal with the occasional woman who intends to spend the
> > >
> > > night in the camp with the boys (I've been on staff at more than one
> > > sectional, divisional, and district camp where that has happened, even
> > > though it was well known that they were not to do so).
> > >
> > > We also have to worry about the safety of the women -- I was on staff at
> > >
> > > one district camp where someone did disturb the women in their camper
> > > during the night. By putting them away from the camp for their privacy
> > > (and
> > > that of the men and boys) we exposed them to danger. Those are the types
> > > of
> > > situations that begin to expose Rangers to legal liability. What if
> > > those
> > > women had been harmed? The lawyers would have started circling like a
> > > bunch
> > > of vultures!
> >
> > Then don't take boys camping, as they are even more trouble.
> > The facts are that NO-ONE should be exposed to danger.
> >
> > Further if the Danger comes from Men acting out.. eliminate
> > the MEN!  I'm tired of hearing that Women in RR, tempt Men to sin.
> > Give it a rest..
> >
> >
> > >
> > >
> > > >As with any diplomatic solution, "official policy" is debated behind
> > > >closed doors, and perhaps run up the "flag pole" on occasion, to test
> > > >it's effects to draw *Fire..
> > >
> > > Are you implying something with your "closed doors" statement? <G>
> >
> > Yes..
> >
> > There is little intrest in changeing the policy. In fact it serves
> > National staff well to bold up the exclusionary verbage. This of course
> > has nothing to do fairness.
> >
> >
> >
> > > Obviously national policy can't be hashed out in an open forum with
> > > everyone involved . . . you would never reach any kind of consensus.
> > > National policy is developed by the national executive committee and
> > > approved by Brother Trask and Brother Crabtree.
> >
> > Why would any of these Brothers take up the issue as important?
> > I would think they would likely overlook it as trivia.
> >
> >
> >  Every region has a
> > > representative on that committee. Thus, everyone is represented in the
> > > discussion. If you don't like the current national policy on some issue,
> > >
> > > talk with your regional coordinator. He's your voice in the executive
> > > committee, and thus your voice in the debates on national policy.
> >
> > That's right Rev.Jimmy Burnett filters out the issues untill a generic
> > consencus is reached.  This is typical of unified organizations that are
> > not elected but appointed by the en-trenched leadership. Thus, when
> > politic'n for a memorial with reguard to PFC Mitch Silvers.. the #1
> > question asked by my Dist. was- "If he wasn't a NW Boy why do we have any
> > intrest?" the reuslt is a watered down note on a scrap of paper.
> >
> > (Used as a word picture to describe the politics in place)
> >
> > >
> > > But there is nothing sinister about the fact that the executive
> > > committee  meetings are closed. Attendance has to be limited, or as I
> > stated above it
> > > would be impossible to reach any kind of consensus.
> >
> > *Forgive me if *I used the word "sinister"... I didn't.
> >
> > As it was, there
> > > were
> > > about 20 folks at the last several meetings of the exec committee. Women
> > > at
> > > Camporama was discussed at the last two meetings, and consensus was
> > > reached
> > > on all issues.
> >
> > Amen and Shalom!
> > *I assume they found it made sence to exclude even international
> > contingents of female Royal Rangers, allowing only Male counterparts<G>
> >
> > >
> > > Keep in mind that each district also sends up to six members of your
> > > executive district staff to National Council each year. This year, the
> > > issue of women in leadership positions above the local level came up for
> > >
> > > discussion on the Council floor. Two people spoke to the issue from the
> > > floor. . . just two. If people in the field feel strongly about this
> > > issue,
> > > you should also discuss your feelings with your district commander. At
> > > this
> > > point in time, there was 700-800 people at national council last month
> > > who
> > > nothing about the current policy. That was an open forum, and an
> > > opportunity for folks to speak up. They didn't.
> >
> > I agree that when it's important, things will change. That also
> > has nothing to do with whats right,fair and just when showing respect
> > for all Adults and their rights as citizens in America. That no one
> > spoke to the concerns, only shows that there isn't much intrest in
> > asking hard questions.
> >
> > The Captian of the Titanic was responsible for avoiding the iceberg he
> > could not see.. While he had every right to proclaim ignorance or lack
> > of reporting from the lookouts, the resultant crash was more than
> > regretible.. it was *Preventible.
> >
> > If he had used "Leadership Larger than needed" he may have slowed down
> > in Ice Berg Country, and made up the time in the open.. Thus- the issue
> > of gender is larger than my voice or concern, and is likely to come to
> > a critical point under less than comfortable situations than the open
> > mike at the NRRC.
> >
> >
> > >
> > >
> > > >I don't beleve this has anything to do with effective Leadership,
> > > >and has everything to do with man made *Domination, as it just seems
> > > >contrived.
> > >
> > > Domination? I don't see it.
> >
> > Agreed.
> >
> > >
> > >
> > > >The test for effective leadership is the resultant High "Morale" that
> > > >follows success and freedom, as in Victory over obsticals..
> > > >since "morale" is the emotional force that gives drive to group action.
> > > >
> > > >You can convince yourself that the sticking point is the uniform or
> > > >some other consideration, but the real issue is justice/ fairness
> > > >and respect to all, by includeing every "Adult leader" in all training
> > > >and positions of service to the Lord, and the boys.
> > >
> > > Since national policy is that women do not camp in Royal Rangers (for
> > > reasons stated above), it would be contrary to national policy to
> > > include
> > > them in training that involves camping.
> >
> > No.. Offering National Training to all builds a reserve of Leadership
> > and awareness from start to finnish of the TOTAL MISSION! *It is
> > usefull for your pastor to attend NTC, your Youth workers should and
> > also *any RR leader reguardless of gender.
> >
> >
> >
> > They are welcome to any training
> > >
> > > Royal Rangers have to offer that is not camping-based.
> > >
> > >
> > > >*If there are reasons for gender policies, I sincerly hope they are
> > > >clearly published and each individual given resources to have them
> > > >explained to their full satisfaction.
> > >
> > > They have been published, and explained. They have also been hashed over
> > > and over here on RangerNet.
> > >
> > > There is no way that the national office staff is going to be able to
> > > convince everyone that the standards are just and fair, so you may never
> >
> > > have things explained to your full satisfaction.
> >
> > Yea.. So say so...upfront.
> > Don't wait untill a lady in Khaki flys into NTC to be told to go home.
> > Be sure to have someone chase down every Lady in Khaki at National Camp.
> >
> >
> > "The following policy is what we desire and will enforce period"
> >
> >
> >  But the current
> > > national
> > > Royal Rangers policies regarding women in Rangers were developed and
> > > endorsed by our own national executive committee, with, as I understand
> > > it,
> > > the full agreement of Brothers Crabtree and Trask.
> >
> > Makes you wonder if they have read the "position paper" by the General
> > Council.
> >
> > Good Chat Jonathan<G>
> >
> > Duane
> >
> > >
> > > I agree with Duane that women are valuable assets in Royal Rangers. I
> > > had a
> > > lady on my sectional staff as SA/B coordinator the whole time I was
> > > sectional commander (five years) -- she did a great job. For a while,
> > > she
> > > was even my senior commander (I know, I know, totally contrary to
> > > national
> > > policy <G> but she was the person who held that outpost together before,
> > >
> > > during, and after the time my family was involved in that church). I was
> > >
> > > senior commander when Straight Arrows was brand new, and I actively
> > > recruited one of the young ladies in our church to be the leader of that
> > >
> > > group . . . she ended up as my sister-in-law. She did a great job. My
> > > first
> > > exposure to leadership in Rangers was as a junior commander in the
> > > Buckaroos group. I worked under a husband/wife team. Both of them did a
> > > great job. I've seen many women over the years doing a great job
> > > ministering to the boys. But I support the current national policy on
> > > women
> > > in Rangers . . . I feel that it's the right policy for this day and age
> > > in
> > > which we live.
> > >
> > > Jonathan
> > >
> > >
> > > > >
> > > > > > "Jose F. Rodriguez" wrote:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Yesterday I went to the Official RR website and saw a glimps of
> > > the
> > > > > uniform
> > > > > > that the female (and probably the male) Ranger Kids commanders are
> > > > > going to
> > > > > > wear.  For those of you who don't know what I'm talking about go
> > > to
> > > > > this page:
> > > > > > http://www.royalrangers.ag.org/royal-rangers/applications.cfm and
> > > > > click on
> > > > > > "Page 1: General Information" (you of course need an Acrobat
> > > Reader to
> > > > > view
> > > > > > them).  Once your one the first page of the All New Transition
> > > > > Brochure look
> > > > > > closely at the picture on the lower left which should show a group
> > > of
> > >
> > === message truncated ===
> >
> >
> > =====
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> > of the follower in the Leader, of each in themself,
> > and both in the .....cause!
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