...and what if the boy accuses both of you? Then 
what? "3 deep" "4 deep"etc.... I am not saying that "2 
deep" is bad, on the contrary it is smart policy. I am 
assuming that Spirit Rider is a smart commander and has 
followed through with what you had mentioned.(Parents 
etc). But don't discount what the Spirit leads you to 
do. Remember He is greater and will not forsake you. He 
is in control always. I am also assuming that Spirit 
Rider has put some prayer into this too. God Bless.
> A question that has not been asked..Does the boy's parents know who he is 
> going to lunch with and have they said okay?  Although I would still not be 
> comfortable with the situation, I would be more comfortable if the answer to 
> my question above was yes.
> 
> *****
> 
> "IN PUBLIC" seems to be the biggest issue here.
> 
> I would consider them to be "in public" if:
> ** They met outside the building on the sidewalk.
> ** They traveled to and from their lunch spot by public 
> transportation(bus...)or on foot.
> ** They ate in a restaurant in plain view of others.
> ** They parted company in front of the building where they met.
> ** At NO TIME were they alone together.
> 
> ***
> 
> Is this extreme?  Yes!
> 
> But lets be realistic.  We live in a world where a brotherly hug may be seen 
> by others as something else.  Lawsuits against churches are big business and 
> usually get high exposure in the media.  It is difficult for a church to 
> survive this exposure.
> 
> I have met Spirit Rider and talked with him.  I do not question his motives 
> or his spirit.  Unfortunately, everybody in his community can not say the 
> same thing --- I don't think everybody has met him yet.
> 
> My advice ---- try to stick with the "2 deep" method.
> 
> 
> Cookie
> 
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