Hi All, As all of u know, I took the responsibility to build the website for Sanskaari. I cannot say much about myself, but just that I wanted to make a very good website for Sanskaari, which would have helped us to get more volunters and donations. This was my sole aim. I m not the one who knows much of politics and manipulation. I just know how to make good softwares. I admit that I was out of contact with Sanskaari for about 2 weeks without giving any prior information, but that is not the proper explanation for what I have had to face.
I got a big shock today morning, don`t have any words to explain. This may be a long chat transcript for u to read. I know that many of u will be upset with me after reading all this, since certain things should not come out since they make the scene appear ugly. But for me transparency is more important than that. So I request all of u to go through this chat transcipt which I had with Amit. One more important thing, I am not doing all this with any special purpose. I just want others to learn from my experience so that they don`t get so much hurt as I am feeling right now. 11:51 AM me: hi 11:52 AM Amit: hi bhai kya haal chal me: badhiya yaar how r u Amit: boss mein thoda bsy chl raha hoon to tum ek baar leenaji se baat kr lo website ke relate mein 11:53 AM actually beech mein vo website apnisis se banwane lag gayi thi to tum thodi help kr do yaar wht say? me: did`nt get it 11:54 AM Amit: for website related wrk u cn talk to leenaji 11:55 AM me: nahi means abhi website wo apni sister se banwa rahi hain? Amit: haan lekin tum help kr do unki me: ok, if she needs any help then she can contact me Amit: ok will tell her 11:56 AM acha bhai billi kaisi hai? me: bhaag raha hoon abhi pakadne ke liye pakad loonga ek din Amit: i knw tht me: yaar but 1 baat hai don`t mind Amit: kya? me: if she had started the work on website then atleast ek baar mujhe bata to dete 11:57 AM i put so much of energy and time into it i m feeling really bad right now it`s not fair Amit: yaar mujhe khud 2 din pehle pata laga hai me: jo bhi hai yaar everyone in sanskaari knew that i was working over it i don`t know wat to say mujhe kisi ne inform bhi nahi kiya 11:58 AM Amit: and second thng lst tym we trusted u and i personally denied some1else fr ths work me: so? u trusted me and i betrayed? Amit: and suddenly u were out of the scene and evrybody strted jumping on me These messages were sent while you were offline. 11:58 AM Amit: no its not lyk tht i trust evry1 and i still trust u man 11:59 AM but we need to understand it is teamwork Amit: no its not lyk tht i trust evry1 and i still trust u man but we need to understand it is teamwork me: i don`t know wat r u saying..... when did i say that i did`nt want to work as a team Amit: and again if u r feeling bad then i m the culprit and i m sry 12:00 PM me: i think u may be able to get it if u think a bit abt it no need to be sorry but this was not fair that i can say Amit: ok i m sorry 12:01 PM yaar agar pehle gayab nhn hote to shayad mein kch kar bhi skta tha but har baar mein blame nhn le sakta me: let`s not talk abt it now Amit: har cheez ke liye me: things will get worse from here Amit: ya u r right 12:02 PM so catt ke alawa aur kya chl raha hai? iift xat? 12:04 PM me: u think main Gayab hua tha......? tumhaare itna kehne ke baad mujhe lagta hai ki.... aur kya boloon main Amit: i think tumne bola ki hum is baare mein baat na kare me: i wasted my time and energy 12:05 PM Amit: tum is baare mein baat krna chahte ho/ ? me: I just want to know why was`nt i informed earlier abt it i contacted a guy we finalized 80% of the content 12:06 PM i selected 20 top pics from those 2000 pics that were sent to me can u imagine how much time i wud have devoted for this u think ki main gaayab hua to i was irresponsible and thus i deserve this kind of behaviour 12:07 PM ki meraa kaam mujhe bataaye bina kisi aur ko de diya jaaye the content that was sent by Leenaji on grp for the website i edited it where i felt the need man if u don`t respect the hardwork then wat shud i say to u? 12:08 PM ask Rohit, I shared almost everything i did with him since u were busy 12:09 PM u think i was not committed enough? u r Wrong Amit: i m sry me: isse kya hoga yar? 12:10 PM this is not professionalism.... if u don`t like something abt the work u tell the person u don`t take the work frm him and give it to other at first go and if someone shud help then it shud be the person who joins late not the one who worked so hard 12:11 PM the one who does more work is actually the one who does the work others help him Amit: ok 12:13 PM see if u r willing enough thn we can tlk on ths face to face 12:14 PM me: I was willing to make a very good website for Sanskaari....... I don`t know abt any other will right now if u think that will solve any purpose then i don`t have any prob 12:16 PM Amit: no it will not solve any prob it will multiply it but anyways i m nt a sacrificial goat me: u r the president of Sanskaari and u r the one whom i talked to 12:17 PM u asked me to build the website for Sanskaari and if u did`nt know abt any other website being built parallely then how cud u say that the other website is the one which will be built 12:18 PM there is a word called Credibility i found u credible this kind of thing was totally unexpected 12:19 PM Amit: see agin i m telling u widout knwing anything u r just yelling at me...lets do it face to face 12:20 PM me: what is it that i don`t know let me know that also Amit: lets meet and talk me: then i will choose wat shud i say ok when and where? 12:21 PM Amit: will let u knw me: i will be busy on sat and sun ------------------------------ 13 minutes12:35 PM Amit: don't wry will schedule it in weekdays Thank you very much for everything. -- Rohit --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "sanskaari" group. 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