Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Prerna Sobti]

Hi
Alot of you list members have reverted
But i will still share my experience . i am a late blind person and situation 
in my life what is such that i was the only bread earner in my family 
The year my youger brother got married in 2012 i was earning 1.25 lakhs per 
momth still i live alone with my mother because my sister in law  who had seen 
my successful corporate life because she had love marriage with my br o ther
So love marriage or otherwise bye you can not change thought process of anyone
Love yourself live your life they live in God 
All that happens for good 

Prerna Sobti 

> On 23-Dec-2022, at 11:39 AM, Cauvery Krishna  
> wrote:
> 
> 
> Thank you so much everyone for your messages. It helped me.
> 
>> On Fri, Dec 23, 2022, 08:49 rituraj meena  wrote:
>> Nothing can happen to such poor and small minded people. I am a resident of 
>> Alwar, Rajasthan. I also get to hear this many times that their children 
>> will also be blind.
>> 
>>> On December 23, 2022 8:17:11 AM Aravind R  
>>> wrote:
>>> 
>>> correct.
>>> I have mentioned about my banking job, decent salary and my own
>>> investment power without any borrowing.
>>> Still people has their own fears like this which we cannot resolve and
>>> they wont openly express also.
>>> 1. first fear is their children might develope disability which nobody
>>> can proove.
>>> 2. Eventhough we are financially independent, our jobs might be at
>>> risk as if, their job is the safest heaven.
>>> 3. today we may sound as independent, but tomorrow, we may ask some
>>> help by emotionally attacking our siblings.
>>> These kind of negative assumptions cannot be cured as its the effect
>>> of their own psychological problems, masked as expressing like our
>>> defects.
>>> 
 On 23/12/2022, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA  wrote:
 it is good to read! that
 
 If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
 dependent to your brother.
 
 it is dificult to prove that you are in good job even if you get a good
 one. blindness is blindness, it has nothing to do with your good job
 outside your office building. I have 30 years of banking job, but, still
 some of my far relatives don't believe it. A complete blind person has
 to struggle with the perception in society. only wait and watch rule works.
 
 
 
> On 12/22/2022 10:26 PM, kannan balasubramanian wrote:
> If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
> dependent to your brother.
> 
> 
> Thank you.
> 
> B. KANNAN
> Mobile: +919444049216.
> 
>> On 12/22/22, Cauvery Krishna  wrote:
>> Hi, Access Indians,
>> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to
>> ask
>> this.
>> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
>> stage of my life.
>> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good
>> with
>> technology, and I am independent also.
>> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage
>> and
>> they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage
>> with
>> my brother.
>> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent
>> person
>> and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
>> stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
>> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
>> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good
>> as
>> well.
>> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
>> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me
>> what
>> can I do now.
>> Thank you.
>> Cauvery Krishna.
>> 
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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Yamuna Jivana dasa (Yogan)]

Friends,
There are always intelligent, thoughtful and broad-minded people out there, 
even in India.

But like anything in this world, the good is harder to find.
The right person will come along, either for your sighted sibling or for 
yourself. Take heart. And pray while dedicating oneself to the path of 
spiritual life.

My story I shared yesterday is proof that God listens, but in his own time.

Kind regards,

Yamuna Jivana dasa

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From: BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA

Sent: Friday, December 23, 2022 8:04 AM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your 
disability.


it is good to read! that

If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
dependent to your brother.

it is dificult to prove that you are in good job even if you get a good
one. blindness is blindness, it has nothing to do with your good job
outside your office building. I have 30 years of banking job, but, still
some of my far relatives don't believe it. A complete blind person has
to struggle with the perception in society. only wait and watch rule works.



On 12/22/2022 10:26 PM, kannan balasubramanian wrote:

If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
dependent to your brother.


Thank you.

B. KANNAN
Mobile: +919444049216.

On 12/22/22, Cauvery Krishna  wrote:

Hi, Access Indians,
This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to 
ask

this.
I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
stage of my life.
I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good with
technology, and I am independent also.
But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage 
and
they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage 
with

my brother.
They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent 
person

and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good as
well.
But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me 
what

can I do now.
Thank you.
Cauvery Krishna.

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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Kiran Kaja]

Hi Cauvery, I can empathise with how you feel. I have 2 older sisters and
about 20 years ago, something similar happened. They would get good
potential matches but once they realize that I am blind, those families
wouldn't pursue it any further. It didn't matter that at the time, I was
even running my own business. Your brother is better off not marrying into
such narrow-minded families. It is not easy to ignore the feeling of
responsibility but it isn't your fault at all.

Good luck with your studies!

Regards,
Kiran
On Thu, Dec 22, 2022 at 10:09 PM Cauvery Krishna <
cauverykrishna...@gmail.com> wrote:

> Thank you so much everyone for your messages. It helped me.
>
> On Fri, Dec 23, 2022, 08:49 rituraj meena 
> wrote:
>
>> Nothing can happen to such poor and small minded people. I am a resident
>> of Alwar, Rajasthan. I also get to hear this many times that their children
>> will also be blind.
>>
>> On December 23, 2022 8:17:11 AM Aravind R 
>> wrote:
>>
>> correct.
>>> I have mentioned about my banking job, decent salary and my own
>>> investment power without any borrowing.
>>> Still people has their own fears like this which we cannot resolve and
>>> they wont openly express also.
>>> 1. first fear is their children might develope disability which nobody
>>> can proove.
>>> 2. Eventhough we are financially independent, our jobs might be at
>>> risk as if, their job is the safest heaven.
>>> 3. today we may sound as independent, but tomorrow, we may ask some
>>> help by emotionally attacking our siblings.
>>> These kind of negative assumptions cannot be cured as its the effect
>>> of their own psychological problems, masked as expressing like our
>>> defects.
>>>
>>> On 23/12/2022, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA  wrote:
>>>
 it is good to read! that

 If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
 dependent to your brother.

 it is dificult to prove that you are in good job even if you get a good
 one. blindness is blindness, it has nothing to do with your good job
 outside your office building. I have 30 years of banking job, but, still
 some of my far relatives don't believe it. A complete blind person has
 to struggle with the perception in society. only wait and watch rule
 works.



 On 12/22/2022 10:26 PM, kannan balasubramanian wrote:

> If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
> dependent to your brother.
>
>
> Thank you.
>
> B. KANNAN
> Mobile: +919444049216.
>
> On 12/22/22, Cauvery Krishna  wrote:
>
>> Hi, Access Indians,
>> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to
>> ask
>> this.
>> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
>> stage of my life.
>> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good
>> with
>> technology, and I am independent also.
>> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged
>> marriage
>> and
>> they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage
>> with
>> my brother.
>> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent
>> person
>> and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
>> stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
>> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
>> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good
>> as
>> well.
>> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
>> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me
>> what
>> can I do now.
>> Thank you.
>> Cauvery Krishna.
>>
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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Cauvery Krishna]

Thank you so much everyone for your messages. It helped me.

On Fri, Dec 23, 2022, 08:49 rituraj meena 
wrote:

> Nothing can happen to such poor and small minded people. I am a resident
> of Alwar, Rajasthan. I also get to hear this many times that their children
> will also be blind.
>
> On December 23, 2022 8:17:11 AM Aravind R 
> wrote:
>
> correct.
>> I have mentioned about my banking job, decent salary and my own
>> investment power without any borrowing.
>> Still people has their own fears like this which we cannot resolve and
>> they wont openly express also.
>> 1. first fear is their children might develope disability which nobody
>> can proove.
>> 2. Eventhough we are financially independent, our jobs might be at
>> risk as if, their job is the safest heaven.
>> 3. today we may sound as independent, but tomorrow, we may ask some
>> help by emotionally attacking our siblings.
>> These kind of negative assumptions cannot be cured as its the effect
>> of their own psychological problems, masked as expressing like our
>> defects.
>>
>> On 23/12/2022, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA  wrote:
>>
>>> it is good to read! that
>>>
>>> If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
>>> dependent to your brother.
>>>
>>> it is dificult to prove that you are in good job even if you get a good
>>> one. blindness is blindness, it has nothing to do with your good job
>>> outside your office building. I have 30 years of banking job, but, still
>>> some of my far relatives don't believe it. A complete blind person has
>>> to struggle with the perception in society. only wait and watch rule
>>> works.
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> On 12/22/2022 10:26 PM, kannan balasubramanian wrote:
>>>
 If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
 dependent to your brother.


 Thank you.

 B. KANNAN
 Mobile: +919444049216.

 On 12/22/22, Cauvery Krishna  wrote:

> Hi, Access Indians,
> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to
> ask
> this.
> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
> stage of my life.
> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good
> with
> technology, and I am independent also.
> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage
> and
> they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage
> with
> my brother.
> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent
> person
> and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
> stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good
> as
> well.
> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me
> what
> can I do now.
> Thank you.
> Cauvery Krishna.
>
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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[rituraj meena]

Nothing can happen to such poor and small minded people. I am a resident of 
Alwar, Rajasthan. I also get to hear this many times that their children 
will also be blind.


On December 23, 2022 8:17:11 AM Aravind R  wrote:


correct.
I have mentioned about my banking job, decent salary and my own
investment power without any borrowing.
Still people has their own fears like this which we cannot resolve and
they wont openly express also.
1. first fear is their children might develope disability which nobody
can proove.
2. Eventhough we are financially independent, our jobs might be at
risk as if, their job is the safest heaven.
3. today we may sound as independent, but tomorrow, we may ask some
help by emotionally attacking our siblings.
These kind of negative assumptions cannot be cured as its the effect
of their own psychological problems, masked as expressing like our
defects.

On 23/12/2022, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA  wrote:

it is good to read! that

If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
dependent to your brother.

it is dificult to prove that you are in good job even if you get a good
one. blindness is blindness, it has nothing to do with your good job
outside your office building. I have 30 years of banking job, but, still
some of my far relatives don't believe it. A complete blind person has
to struggle with the perception in society. only wait and watch rule works.



On 12/22/2022 10:26 PM, kannan balasubramanian wrote:

If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
dependent to your brother.


Thank you.

B. KANNAN
Mobile: +919444049216.

On 12/22/22, Cauvery Krishna  wrote:

Hi, Access Indians,
This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to
ask
this.
I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
stage of my life.
I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good
with
technology, and I am independent also.
But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage
and
they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage
with
my brother.
They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent
person
and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good
as
well.
But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me
what
can I do now.
Thank you.
Cauvery Krishna.

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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Aravind R]

correct.
I have mentioned about my banking job, decent salary and my own
investment power without any borrowing.
Still people has their own fears like this which we cannot resolve and
they wont openly express also.
1. first fear is their children might develope disability which nobody
can proove.
2. Eventhough we are financially independent, our jobs might be at
risk as if, their job is the safest heaven.
3. today we may sound as independent, but tomorrow, we may ask some
help by emotionally attacking our siblings.
These kind of negative assumptions cannot be cured as its the effect
of their own psychological problems, masked as expressing like our
defects.

On 23/12/2022, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA  wrote:
> it is good to read! that
>
> If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
> dependent to your brother.
>
> it is dificult to prove that you are in good job even if you get a good
> one. blindness is blindness, it has nothing to do with your good job
> outside your office building. I have 30 years of banking job, but, still
> some of my far relatives don't believe it. A complete blind person has
> to struggle with the perception in society. only wait and watch rule works.
>
>
>
> On 12/22/2022 10:26 PM, kannan balasubramanian wrote:
>> If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
>> dependent to your brother.
>>
>>
>> Thank you.
>>
>> B. KANNAN
>> Mobile: +919444049216.
>>
>> On 12/22/22, Cauvery Krishna  wrote:
>>> Hi, Access Indians,
>>> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to
>>> ask
>>> this.
>>> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
>>> stage of my life.
>>> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good
>>> with
>>> technology, and I am independent also.
>>> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage
>>> and
>>> they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage
>>> with
>>> my brother.
>>> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent
>>> person
>>> and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
>>> stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
>>> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
>>> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good
>>> as
>>> well.
>>> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
>>> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me
>>> what
>>> can I do now.
>>> Thank you.
>>> Cauvery Krishna.
>>>
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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA]

it is good to read! that

If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
dependent to your brother.

it is dificult to prove that you are in good job even if you get a good 
one. blindness is blindness, it has nothing to do with your good job 
outside your office building. I have 30 years of banking job, but, still 
some of my far relatives don't believe it. A complete blind person has 
to struggle with the perception in society. only wait and watch rule works.




On 12/22/2022 10:26 PM, kannan balasubramanian wrote:

If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
dependent to your brother.


Thank you.

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On 12/22/22, Cauvery Krishna  wrote:

Hi, Access Indians,
This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to ask
this.
I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
stage of my life.
I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good with
technology, and I am independent also.
But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage and
they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage with
my brother.
They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent person
and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good as
well.
But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me what
can I do now.
Thank you.
Cauvery Krishna.

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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

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If you get a very good job, people will understand that you are not a
dependent to your brother.


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On 12/22/22, Cauvery Krishna  wrote:
> Hi, Access Indians,
> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to ask
> this.
> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
> stage of my life.
> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good with
> technology, and I am independent also.
> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage and
> they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage with
> my brother.
> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent person
> and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
> stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good as
> well.
> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me what
> can I do now.
> Thank you.
> Cauvery Krishna.
>
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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Aravind R]

i too am facing the same issue.
My sister is not getting good matches due to my blindness.
Most people asks about the support, i expect from sister after marriage.
All times, we mentioned we are financially indipendent, still we doubt
they consider it as serious issue.
i have stopped worrying about this issue as problem is with them only.

On 22/12/2022, Yamuna Jivana dasa (Yogan)  wrote:
> I am very happy to meet a blind community in India consisting of people who
>
> seem to care for each other, to support and comfort each other through these
>
> challenges.
> This is very encouraging. Way to go everyone. Way to go!
>
> Hugs,
>
> Yamuna Jivana dasa
>
> -Original Message-
> From: Sandeep Singh
> Sent: Thursday, December 22, 2022 6:45 PM
> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
> Subject: Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your
> disability.
>
> Just shows how insensitive, how selfish the people have become.
> Earlier, people would appreciate someone looking after their
> relatives, or even strangers, in need but now no one wants others,
> however needy, to share their comfort and facilities. However, please
> don't be too disheartened, Cauvery. You are capable enough to take
> care of yourself and people will understand it soon enough. Then your
> brother will get his right match, and so will you.
>
> Warm regards
> Sandeep Singh
>
> On 12/22/22, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA  wrote:
>> On blindness, the progression of the society is based upon perception
>> not on truth. In your brother’s case, this perception has now become a
>> bitter truth. Your brother have to wait and in-search until he get a
>> right partner who don’t have faith on such perception. In my opinion,
>> complete blindness for the society, is a matter of adjustment not a
>> subject of acceptance, and it is a bitter truth.
>>
>> On 12/22/2022 6:08 AM, Cauvery Krishna wrote:
>>> Hi, Access Indians,
>>> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to
>>> ask this.
>>> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
>>> stage of my life.
>>> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good
>>> with technology, and I am independent also.
>>> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged
>>> marriage and they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel
>>> the marriage with my brother.
>>> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent
>>> person and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with
>>> monthly stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
>>> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
>>> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good
>>> as well.
>>> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
>>> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me
>>> what can I do now.
>>> Thank you.
>>> Cauvery Krishna.
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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Yamuna Jivana dasa (Yogan)]

I am very happy to meet a blind community in India consisting of people who 
seem to care for each other, to support and comfort each other through these 
challenges.

This is very encouraging. Way to go everyone. Way to go!

Hugs,

Yamuna Jivana dasa

-Original Message- 
From: Sandeep Singh

Sent: Thursday, December 22, 2022 6:45 PM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
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disability.


Just shows how insensitive, how selfish the people have become.
Earlier, people would appreciate someone looking after their
relatives, or even strangers, in need but now no one wants others,
however needy, to share their comfort and facilities. However, please
don't be too disheartened, Cauvery. You are capable enough to take
care of yourself and people will understand it soon enough. Then your
brother will get his right match, and so will you.

Warm regards
Sandeep Singh

On 12/22/22, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA  wrote:

On blindness, the progression of the society is based upon perception
not on truth. In your brother’s case, this perception has now become a
bitter truth. Your brother have to wait and in-search until he get a
right partner who don’t have faith on such perception. In my opinion,
complete blindness for the society, is a matter of adjustment not a
subject of acceptance, and it is a bitter truth.

On 12/22/2022 6:08 AM, Cauvery Krishna wrote:

Hi, Access Indians,
This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to
ask this.
I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
stage of my life.
I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good
with technology, and I am independent also.
But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged
marriage and they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel
the marriage with my brother.
They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent
person and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with
monthly stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good
as well.
But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me
what can I do now.
Thank you.
Cauvery Krishna.
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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Sandeep Singh]

Just shows how insensitive, how selfish the people have become.
Earlier, people would appreciate someone looking after their
relatives, or even strangers, in need but now no one wants others,
however needy, to share their comfort and facilities. However, please
don't be too disheartened, Cauvery. You are capable enough to take
care of yourself and people will understand it soon enough. Then your
brother will get his right match, and so will you.

Warm regards
Sandeep Singh

On 12/22/22, BHAWANI SHANKAR VERMA  wrote:
> On blindness, the progression of the society is based upon perception
> not on truth. In your brother’s case, this perception has now become a
> bitter truth. Your brother have to wait and in-search until he get a
> right partner who don’t have faith on such perception. In my opinion,
> complete blindness for the society, is a matter of adjustment not a
> subject of acceptance, and it is a bitter truth.
>
> On 12/22/2022 6:08 AM, Cauvery Krishna wrote:
>> Hi, Access Indians,
>> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to
>> ask this.
>> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
>> stage of my life.
>> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good
>> with technology, and I am independent also.
>> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged
>> marriage and they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel
>> the marriage with my brother.
>> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent
>> person and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with
>> monthly stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
>> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
>> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good
>> as well.
>> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
>> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me
>> what can I do now.
>> Thank you.
>> Cauvery Krishna.
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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

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On blindness, the progression of the society is based upon perception 
not on truth. In your brother’s case, this perception has now become a 
bitter truth. Your brother have to wait and in-search until he get a 
right partner who don’t have faith on such perception. In my opinion, 
complete blindness for the society, is a matter of adjustment not a 
subject of acceptance, and it is a bitter truth.


On 12/22/2022 6:08 AM, Cauvery Krishna wrote:

Hi, Access Indians,
This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to 
ask this.
I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later 
stage of my life.
I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good 
with technology, and I am independent also.
But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged 
marriage and they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel 
the marriage with my brother.
They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent 
person and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with 
monthly stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.

They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good 
as well.

But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me 
what can I do now.

Thank you.
Cauvery Krishna.
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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[pavan kallem]

Hi Cauvery Krishna, it is very disheartening to know the strange
attitude of some people towards your family. I have been, and still am
at times, where you are at right now. I understand. You are loved.
Your pain and sorrow will pass, even though it feels like it won’t. I
will always be your friend and love you. Your life is important to me.
I know it’s hard to believe that during the dark times, but I’m right
here to help you through. trust me dude, You’re not alone. Hang on!
more power to you and your brother. I'll pray god to give you
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On 12/22/22, Kakarla Nageswaraiah  wrote:
> My brother and I are congenitally blind.  This had an impact on the
> marriage of my sighted sister for some time.  Many people suspected
> that her children would inherit the disability of their maternal
> uncles.
> Regards.
>
>
> On 12/22/22, Ved  wrote:
>> In my case, we were two brothers and four sisters. All including myself,
>> got
>> married without any consideration of disability. Let me tell you that I
>> belonged to a rural belt in U P where people are considered to be most
>> backwards and conservative. In rural U P, disabled persons are sometimes
>> mocked and teased but it looks that family reputation stands more
>> strongly
>> than the disability consideration when it comes to matters like marriage
>> etc.
>>
>>
>>
>> From: accessindia@accessindia.org.in  On
>> Behalf Of Cauvery Krishna
>> Sent: 22 December 2022 06:08 AM
>> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
>> Subject: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your
>> disability.
>>
>>
>>
>> Hi, Access Indians,
>>
>> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to
>> ask
>> this.
>>
>> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
>> stage
>> of my life.
>>
>> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good with
>> technology, and I am independent also.
>>
>> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage
>> and
>> they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage
>> with
>> my brother.
>>
>> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent
>> person
>> and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
>> stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
>>
>> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
>>
>> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good as
>> well.
>>
>> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
>>
>> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me
>> what
>> can I do now.
>>
>> Thank you.
>>
>> Cauvery Krishna.
>>
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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Kakarla Nageswaraiah]

My brother and I are congenitally blind.  This had an impact on the
marriage of my sighted sister for some time.  Many people suspected
that her children would inherit the disability of their maternal
uncles.
Regards.


On 12/22/22, Ved  wrote:
> In my case, we were two brothers and four sisters. All including myself, got
> married without any consideration of disability. Let me tell you that I
> belonged to a rural belt in U P where people are considered to be most
> backwards and conservative. In rural U P, disabled persons are sometimes
> mocked and teased but it looks that family reputation stands more strongly
> than the disability consideration when it comes to matters like marriage
> etc.
>
>
>
> From: accessindia@accessindia.org.in  On
> Behalf Of Cauvery Krishna
> Sent: 22 December 2022 06:08 AM
> To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
> Subject: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your
> disability.
>
>
>
> Hi, Access Indians,
>
> This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to ask
> this.
>
> I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later stage
> of my life.
>
> I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good with
> technology, and I am independent also.
>
> But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage and
> they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage with
> my brother.
>
> They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent person
> and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
> stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
>
> They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
>
> My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good as
> well.
>
> But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
>
> If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me what
> can I do now.
>
> Thank you.
>
> Cauvery Krishna.
>
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RE: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Ved]

In my case, we were two brothers and four sisters. All including myself, got 
married without any consideration of disability. Let me tell you that I 
belonged to a rural belt in U P where people are considered to be most 
backwards and conservative. In rural U P, disabled persons are sometimes mocked 
and teased but it looks that family reputation stands more strongly than the 
disability consideration when it comes to matters like marriage etc.

 

From: accessindia@accessindia.org.in  On Behalf 
Of Cauvery Krishna
Sent: 22 December 2022 06:08 AM
To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in
Subject: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

 

Hi, Access Indians,

This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to ask this.

I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later stage of 
my life.

I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good with 
technology, and I am independent also.

But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage and 
they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage with my 
brother.

They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent person and 
even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly stipent, and 
I will soon be getting a good job.

They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.

My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good as well.

But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.

If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me what can 
I do now.

Thank you.

Cauvery Krishna.

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Re: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[B. R. Nautial]

I think, this is not a big issue & He'll get married soon. Sometimes, it takes 
time because All mighty God has selected appropriate time for everyone.
  - Original Message - 
  From: Cauvery Krishna 
  To: accessindia@accessindia.org.in 
  Sent: Thursday, December 22, 2022 6:08 AM
  Subject: [AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your 
disability.


  Hi, Access Indians,
  This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to ask 
this.
  I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later stage 
of my life.
  I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good with 
technology, and I am independent also.
  But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage and 
they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage with my 
brother.
  They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent person 
and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly stipent, 
and I will soon be getting a good job.
  They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
  My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good as 
well.
  But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
  If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me what 
can I do now.
  Thank you.
  Cauvery Krishna.

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[AI] Does your siblings not getting married because of your disability.

[Cauvery Krishna]

Hi, Access Indians,
This is a very personal thing but I don't have any other option but to ask
this.
I am a person with visual impairment; I have lost my vision at a later
stage of my life.
I am pursuing my post graduation at a reputed institution, I am good with
technology, and I am independent also.
But, when people come to see my elder brother for his arranged marriage and
they get to know about me and my disability, they cancel the marriage with
my brother.
They think that I am a burden on my brother but I am an independent person
and even I am studying on a 100% scholarship and that too with monthly
stipent, and I will soon be getting a good job.
They say that they don't want their daughter to do seva of me.
My brother is does not have a disability, he looks good and ernes good as
well.
But because of me and my disability he is not getting married.
If some one of you has faced this type of situation please suggest me what
can I do now.
Thank you.
Cauvery Krishna.

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