RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Rick Faircloth
 From Scott Stroz:

 UNSUBSCRIBE

Scott,

I know you're probably unsubscribing because of the incivility
shown on this list in the last couple of days...and it has been bad.

However, there is a lot to be gained from monitoring and participating
in this list.  I would never have been able to get a business based on
web design that utilizing Cold Fusion without it.  It's not always this
bad...usually, it's quite civil.

Now, to speak the CF-Talk family...forgive my forwardness in speaking
to the group like this, but this little family has begun to act like too
many
real families.  Unable to carry on conversation without argument, sometimes
profanity, undue criticism, etc.  Many real families fall apart when it gets
like this...the same is true for online families and I think, if my
instinct is correct,
that Scott Stroz may be the first victim of this CF family's misbehavior.

We need to temper criticism of other people and, especially, their websites
and products.  Criticism can be constructive and given in that light is
usually welcome
by the producers.  But the kind of criticism, even lately of free products,
has been
quite over-the-top.  I think some of us need a vacation, or at least more
sleep and
less caffeine!

In groups like this one, it's easy for the inner circle to become very
familiar with
each other and, like in all personal relationships, get a little too relaxed
with what
we say.  People who sign up for the form, because of their interest in Cold
Fusion
and need for help, will quickly abandon this list, not get the help they
need, and
perhaps abandon Cold Fusion, itself.  This doesn't help any of us in the
long run
and especially the person in need in the short run.

Notice, I'm not using capital letters, so I'm not yelling at anyone...this
is just a call
of encouragement for all of us to be careful in our conduct and etiquette on
this list.
There are constantly new people checking out what's going on that we never
know
are watching.  We need to show them this is a place of help and comradery,
not of
heated criticism, petty sniping, and destructive argument.  People show up
here
in need of help...not just with the code, but with the difficulty of dealing
with the
situations they're in which drove here in the first place.

Personally, I'm tough enough to stick out the troubled moments we have here
to
get the benefits from this list.  But for the sake of those who won't stick
around long
enough to see what a great resource this list is, I encourage everyone to
play nice...

Thanks for indulging my concerns...

Rick

Rick Faircloth,
White Stone Media


-Original Message-
From: Scott Stroz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 11:37 AM
To: CF-Talk
Subject: Re: Anyone used these tools?


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Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Scott Stroz
Rick,

I was joking.  The guy from smartsurfonline said it was easy to
unsubscribe to their mailing list.  I was taking an unprovoked jab at
him.

I love CF-Talk, the humor, the drama, the mud slinging...oh, yea,
there sometimes some good tech related stuff here too ;-)

Scott


On Fri, 11 Mar 2005 12:25:42 -0500, Rick Faircloth
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  From Scott Stroz:
 
  UNSUBSCRIBE
 
 Scott,
 
 I know you're probably unsubscribing because of the incivility
 shown on this list in the last couple of days...and it has been bad.
 
 However, there is a lot to be gained from monitoring and participating
 in this list.  I would never have been able to get a business based on
 web design that utilizing Cold Fusion without it.  It's not always this
 bad...usually, it's quite civil.
 
 Now, to speak the CF-Talk family...forgive my forwardness in speaking
 to the group like this, but this little family has begun to act like too
 many
 real families.  Unable to carry on conversation without argument, sometimes
 profanity, undue criticism, etc.  Many real families fall apart when it gets
 like this...the same is true for online families and I think, if my
 instinct is correct,
 that Scott Stroz may be the first victim of this CF family's misbehavior.
 
 We need to temper criticism of other people and, especially, their websites
 and products.  Criticism can be constructive and given in that light is
 usually welcome
 by the producers.  But the kind of criticism, even lately of free products,
 has been
 quite over-the-top.  I think some of us need a vacation, or at least more
 sleep and
 less caffeine!
 
 In groups like this one, it's easy for the inner circle to become very
 familiar with
 each other and, like in all personal relationships, get a little too relaxed
 with what
 we say.  People who sign up for the form, because of their interest in Cold
 Fusion
 and need for help, will quickly abandon this list, not get the help they
 need, and
 perhaps abandon Cold Fusion, itself.  This doesn't help any of us in the
 long run
 and especially the person in need in the short run.
 
 Notice, I'm not using capital letters, so I'm not yelling at anyone...this
 is just a call
 of encouragement for all of us to be careful in our conduct and etiquette on
 this list.
 There are constantly new people checking out what's going on that we never
 know
 are watching.  We need to show them this is a place of help and comradery,
 not of
 heated criticism, petty sniping, and destructive argument.  People show up
 here
 in need of help...not just with the code, but with the difficulty of dealing
 with the
 situations they're in which drove here in the first place.
 
 Personally, I'm tough enough to stick out the troubled moments we have here
 to
 get the benefits from this list.  But for the sake of those who won't stick
 around long
 enough to see what a great resource this list is, I encourage everyone to
 play nice...
 
 Thanks for indulging my concerns...
 
 Rick
 
 Rick Faircloth,
 White Stone Media
 
 -Original Message-
 From: Scott Stroz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 11:37 AM
 To: CF-Talk
 Subject: Re: Anyone used these tools?
 
 UNSUBSCRIBE
 
 

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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Connie DeCinko
Everyone should also be aware that with Google, etc., forum and list posts
now live on much longer than the week or so they are in your inbox.  So,
watch what you say as it may haunt you for a very long time.




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Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Jared Rypka-Hauer - CMG, LLC
Thanks, Rick...

Good words... good thoughts.

I'm always for the idea of getting more sleep, but I'm not sure
anybody wants to see what I'm like on less caffeine. It gets ugly. I
do appreciate the honesty around here, and there's little of the
backbiting that happens in so many communities after they've matured
enough to have an inner circle or regs as other communities call
them.

I think, honestly, that some of the sharper comments I've made lately
may have been mitigated by getting more sleep... and if I've
contributed to the discomfort of others by making those statements...
well... I'd feel bad. It's often very hard to discern the fine line
between calling a spade a spade and being unduly harsh... perhaps I
crossed a line along the way. If so, my apologies to all offended.

Thanks again, Rick, for the reminder that there's always *people*
behind these black-on-white lines of text.

Laterz,
J


On Fri, 11 Mar 2005 12:25:42 -0500, Rick Faircloth
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  From Scott Stroz:
 
  UNSUBSCRIBE
 
 Scott,
 
 I know you're probably unsubscribing because of the incivility
 shown on this list in the last couple of days...and it has been bad.
 
 However, there is a lot to be gained from monitoring and participating
 in this list.  I would never have been able to get a business based on
 web design that utilizing Cold Fusion without it.  It's not always this
 bad...usually, it's quite civil.
 
 Now, to speak the CF-Talk family...forgive my forwardness in speaking
 to the group like this, but this little family has begun to act like too
 many
 real families.  Unable to carry on conversation without argument, sometimes
 profanity, undue criticism, etc.  Many real families fall apart when it gets
 like this...the same is true for online families and I think, if my
 instinct is correct,
 that Scott Stroz may be the first victim of this CF family's misbehavior.
 
 We need to temper criticism of other people and, especially, their websites
 and products.  Criticism can be constructive and given in that light is
 usually welcome
 by the producers.  But the kind of criticism, even lately of free products,
 has been
 quite over-the-top.  I think some of us need a vacation, or at least more
 sleep and
 less caffeine!
snippages

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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Kevin Aebig
Very, very true. I found this list when I realized that many of the issues
I've had with CF were properly dealt with here through google. If you want
to see what a potential client or employer could find on you, just type your
email that you use for the list into google... I'll be very shocked if your
posts aren't pulled.

Kevin
[kes geek]

Coldfusion Remote Dashboard
http://www.keslabs.com/crd



-Original Message-
From: Connie DeCinko [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 11:43 AM
To: CF-Talk
Subject: RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz


Everyone should also be aware that with Google, etc., forum and list posts
now live on much longer than the week or so they are in your inbox.  So,
watch what you say as it may haunt you for a very long time.






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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Rick Faircloth
Scott,

I enjoy the humor, *some* of the drama, and good-natured ribbing,
but some of it, profanity, abusive trashing other's works and sites,
criticism of someone who lets the community know of *free* tools
they've created and are inviting people to use and getting verbally
abused for it...a lot of that stuff needs to go...

It's not good for the list.

Glad you're sticking around  :o)

I'd be interested in knowing how many people sign up for the list
and how many people unsubscribe by the month...any chance
Michael might share numbers or just maybe some insight into
how what goes on here affects subscriptions?

Rick


-Original Message-
From: Scott Stroz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 12:43 PM
To: CF-Talk
Subject: Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz


Rick,

I was joking.  The guy from smartsurfonline said it was easy to
unsubscribe to their mailing list.  I was taking an unprovoked jab at
him.

I love CF-Talk, the humor, the drama, the mud slinging...oh, yea,
there sometimes some good tech related stuff here too ;-)

Scott


On Fri, 11 Mar 2005 12:25:42 -0500, Rick Faircloth
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  From Scott Stroz:

  UNSUBSCRIBE

 Scott,

 I know you're probably unsubscribing because of the incivility
 shown on this list in the last couple of days...and it has been bad.

 However, there is a lot to be gained from monitoring and participating
 in this list.  I would never have been able to get a business based on
 web design that utilizing Cold Fusion without it.  It's not always this
 bad...usually, it's quite civil.

 Now, to speak the CF-Talk family...forgive my forwardness in speaking
 to the group like this, but this little family has begun to act like too
 many
 real families.  Unable to carry on conversation without argument,
sometimes
 profanity, undue criticism, etc.  Many real families fall apart when it
gets
 like this...the same is true for online families and I think, if my
 instinct is correct,
 that Scott Stroz may be the first victim of this CF family's misbehavior.

 We need to temper criticism of other people and, especially, their
websites
 and products.  Criticism can be constructive and given in that light is
 usually welcome
 by the producers.  But the kind of criticism, even lately of free
products,
 has been
 quite over-the-top.  I think some of us need a vacation, or at least more
 sleep and
 less caffeine!

 In groups like this one, it's easy for the inner circle to become very
 familiar with
 each other and, like in all personal relationships, get a little too
relaxed
 with what
 we say.  People who sign up for the form, because of their interest in
Cold
 Fusion
 and need for help, will quickly abandon this list, not get the help they
 need, and
 perhaps abandon Cold Fusion, itself.  This doesn't help any of us in the
 long run
 and especially the person in need in the short run.

 Notice, I'm not using capital letters, so I'm not yelling at anyone...this
 is just a call
 of encouragement for all of us to be careful in our conduct and etiquette
on
 this list.
 There are constantly new people checking out what's going on that we never
 know
 are watching.  We need to show them this is a place of help and comradery,
 not of
 heated criticism, petty sniping, and destructive argument.  People show up
 here
 in need of help...not just with the code, but with the difficulty of
dealing
 with the
 situations they're in which drove here in the first place.

 Personally, I'm tough enough to stick out the troubled moments we have
here
 to
 get the benefits from this list.  But for the sake of those who won't
stick
 around long
 enough to see what a great resource this list is, I encourage everyone to
 play nice...

 Thanks for indulging my concerns...

 Rick

 Rick Faircloth,
 White Stone Media

 -Original Message-
 From: Scott Stroz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 11:37 AM
 To: CF-Talk
 Subject: Re: Anyone used these tools?

 UNSUBSCRIBE





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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Ray Champagne
I've often wondered how many people actually subscribe to each list (talk 
and comm).  Seems like the same handful post all the time, just wondering 
how many lurkers are out there.  :)

Ray

At 01:09 PM 3/11/2005, you wrote:
Scott,

I enjoy the humor, *some* of the drama, and good-natured ribbing,
but some of it, profanity, abusive trashing other's works and sites,
criticism of someone who lets the community know of *free* tools
they've created and are inviting people to use and getting verbally
abused for it...a lot of that stuff needs to go...

It's not good for the list.

Glad you're sticking around  :o)

I'd be interested in knowing how many people sign up for the list
and how many people unsubscribe by the month...any chance
Michael might share numbers or just maybe some insight into
how what goes on here affects subscriptions?

Rick


-Original Message-
From: Scott Stroz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 12:43 PM
To: CF-Talk
Subject: Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz


Rick,

I was joking.  The guy from smartsurfonline said it was easy to
unsubscribe to their mailing list.  I was taking an unprovoked jab at
him.

I love CF-Talk, the humor, the drama, the mud slinging...oh, yea,
there sometimes some good tech related stuff here too ;-)

Scott


On Fri, 11 Mar 2005 12:25:42 -0500, Rick Faircloth
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   From Scott Stroz:
 
   UNSUBSCRIBE
 
  Scott,
 
  I know you're probably unsubscribing because of the incivility
  shown on this list in the last couple of days...and it has been bad.
 
  However, there is a lot to be gained from monitoring and participating
  in this list.  I would never have been able to get a business based on
  web design that utilizing Cold Fusion without it.  It's not always this
  bad...usually, it's quite civil.
 
  Now, to speak the CF-Talk family...forgive my forwardness in speaking
  to the group like this, but this little family has begun to act like too
  many
  real families.  Unable to carry on conversation without argument,
sometimes
  profanity, undue criticism, etc.  Many real families fall apart when it
gets
  like this...the same is true for online families and I think, if my
  instinct is correct,
  that Scott Stroz may be the first victim of this CF family's misbehavior.
 
  We need to temper criticism of other people and, especially, their
websites
  and products.  Criticism can be constructive and given in that light is
  usually welcome
  by the producers.  But the kind of criticism, even lately of free
products,
  has been
  quite over-the-top.  I think some of us need a vacation, or at least more
  sleep and
  less caffeine!
 
  In groups like this one, it's easy for the inner circle to become very
  familiar with
  each other and, like in all personal relationships, get a little too
relaxed
  with what
  we say.  People who sign up for the form, because of their interest in
Cold
  Fusion
  and need for help, will quickly abandon this list, not get the help they
  need, and
  perhaps abandon Cold Fusion, itself.  This doesn't help any of us in the
  long run
  and especially the person in need in the short run.
 
  Notice, I'm not using capital letters, so I'm not yelling at anyone...this
  is just a call
  of encouragement for all of us to be careful in our conduct and etiquette
on
  this list.
  There are constantly new people checking out what's going on that we never
  know
  are watching.  We need to show them this is a place of help and comradery,
  not of
  heated criticism, petty sniping, and destructive argument.  People show up
  here
  in need of help...not just with the code, but with the difficulty of
dealing
  with the
  situations they're in which drove here in the first place.
 
  Personally, I'm tough enough to stick out the troubled moments we have
here
  to
  get the benefits from this list.  But for the sake of those who won't
stick
  around long
  enough to see what a great resource this list is, I encourage everyone to
  play nice...
 
  Thanks for indulging my concerns...
 
  Rick
 
  Rick Faircloth,
  White Stone Media
 
  -Original Message-
  From: Scott Stroz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 11:37 AM
  To: CF-Talk
  Subject: Re: Anyone used these tools?
 
  UNSUBSCRIBE
 
 





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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Rick Faircloth
After a quite a few years of using software in various aspects of my
business... operating systems, video production software, database software,
and Cold Fusion, etc.,...I've learned that before I spend a penny on
software
I should find a place where the people that use that software gather to
discuss
it's use.  I don't have to even participate to get an idea of the quality of
the
software and the community of users that I'll probably depend on to use it.

Based on the kind of comments, and potential assistance from lists like this
one,
I'll make a decision whether or not to invest in that software.  With more
and more
companies becoming practically unapproachable for support without spending
lots
of dollars, it's important to know there are communities surrounding
products that
can help with issues that come up without entering a firestorm.

plug
I will put in a plug for one company, however...Linksys (Cisco)...I've used
their inexpensive
routers for several years now with good performance, but when I have a
problem,
I can call a free 800 number, and talk to technicians as long as I need to
and never
have to pay a dime.  I'm not sure how they afford to offer that level of
support for free,
but I'll always be a customer because of it...
/plug

But, back to CF-Talk...this place has been like a gold mine for me...
and I want it to keep that polished sheen...

Rick


-Original Message-
From: Ray Champagne [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 1:10 PM
To: CF-Talk
Subject: RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz


I've often wondered how many people actually subscribe to each list (talk
and comm).  Seems like the same handful post all the time, just wondering
how many lurkers are out there.  :)

Ray

At 01:09 PM 3/11/2005, you wrote:
Scott,

I enjoy the humor, *some* of the drama, and good-natured ribbing,
but some of it, profanity, abusive trashing other's works and sites,
criticism of someone who lets the community know of *free* tools
they've created and are inviting people to use and getting verbally
abused for it...a lot of that stuff needs to go...

It's not good for the list.

Glad you're sticking around  :o)

I'd be interested in knowing how many people sign up for the list
and how many people unsubscribe by the month...any chance
Michael might share numbers or just maybe some insight into
how what goes on here affects subscriptions?

Rick


-Original Message-
From: Scott Stroz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 12:43 PM
To: CF-Talk
Subject: Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz


Rick,

I was joking.  The guy from smartsurfonline said it was easy to
unsubscribe to their mailing list.  I was taking an unprovoked jab at
him.

I love CF-Talk, the humor, the drama, the mud slinging...oh, yea,
there sometimes some good tech related stuff here too ;-)

Scott


On Fri, 11 Mar 2005 12:25:42 -0500, Rick Faircloth
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   From Scott Stroz:
 
   UNSUBSCRIBE
 
  Scott,
 
  I know you're probably unsubscribing because of the incivility
  shown on this list in the last couple of days...and it has been bad.
 
  However, there is a lot to be gained from monitoring and participating
  in this list.  I would never have been able to get a business based on
  web design that utilizing Cold Fusion without it.  It's not always this
  bad...usually, it's quite civil.
 
  Now, to speak the CF-Talk family...forgive my forwardness in speaking
  to the group like this, but this little family has begun to act like
too
  many
  real families.  Unable to carry on conversation without argument,
sometimes
  profanity, undue criticism, etc.  Many real families fall apart when it
gets
  like this...the same is true for online families and I think, if my
  instinct is correct,
  that Scott Stroz may be the first victim of this CF family's
misbehavior.
 
  We need to temper criticism of other people and, especially, their
websites
  and products.  Criticism can be constructive and given in that light is
  usually welcome
  by the producers.  But the kind of criticism, even lately of free
products,
  has been
  quite over-the-top.  I think some of us need a vacation, or at least
more
  sleep and
  less caffeine!
 
  In groups like this one, it's easy for the inner circle to become very
  familiar with
  each other and, like in all personal relationships, get a little too
relaxed
  with what
  we say.  People who sign up for the form, because of their interest in
Cold
  Fusion
  and need for help, will quickly abandon this list, not get the help they
  need, and
  perhaps abandon Cold Fusion, itself.  This doesn't help any of us in the
  long run
  and especially the person in need in the short run.
 
  Notice, I'm not using capital letters, so I'm not yelling at
anyone...this
  is just a call
  of encouragement for all of us to be careful in our conduct and
etiquette
on
  this list.
  There are constantly new people checking out what's going on that we
never
  know

Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Michael Dinowitz
2669 on CF-Talk
565 on CF-Community
We also have a LOT of people on the RSS feeds and using the archives (which 
have been upgraded again).
I don't keep records of when someone leaves a list or joins up. Maybe I 
should, but it's really useless data to me. What's more important is getting 
the name of House of Fusion out there as a community resource and providing 
for the ColdFusion community.

 I've often wondered how many people actually subscribe to each list (talk
 and comm).  Seems like the same handful post all the time, just wondering
 how many lurkers are out there.  :)



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Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Ray Champagne
Cool, thanks for the info.

I am surprised at the community numbers.  I thought it would be less than 
that.  Seems like we have about 50 ppl who post on a normal 
basis.  Lurkers, come out of the woodwork!  :)

Ray


At 01:29 PM 3/11/2005, you wrote:
2669 on CF-Talk
565 on CF-Community
We also have a LOT of people on the RSS feeds and using the archives (which
have been upgraded again).
I don't keep records of when someone leaves a list or joins up. Maybe I
should, but it's really useless data to me. What's more important is getting
the name of House of Fusion out there as a community resource and providing
for the ColdFusion community.

  I've often wondered how many people actually subscribe to each list (talk
  and comm).  Seems like the same handful post all the time, just wondering
  how many lurkers are out there.  :)





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Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Scott Stroz
On Fri, 11 Mar 2005 13:36:48 -0500, Ray Champagne [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 Cool, thanks for the info.
 
 I am surprised at the community numbers.  I thought it would be less than
 that.  Seems like we have about 50 ppl who post on a normal
 basis.  Lurkers, come out of the woodwork!  :)
 

And face the wrath of 'The List'...I shudder at the thought ;-)


-- 
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Some days you are the tree.

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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Rick Faircloth
 Lurkers, come out of the woodwork!  :)

They probably will, when they're sure they won't
be squashed like a roach if they make an appearance
and dare utter any words which might draw the ire of
some on this list...

Rick

-Original Message-
From: Ray Champagne [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 1:37 PM
To: CF-Talk
Subject: Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz


Cool, thanks for the info.

I am surprised at the community numbers.  I thought it would be less than
that.  Seems like we have about 50 ppl who post on a normal
basis.  Lurkers, come out of the woodwork!  :)

Ray


At 01:29 PM 3/11/2005, you wrote:
2669 on CF-Talk
565 on CF-Community
We also have a LOT of people on the RSS feeds and using the archives (which
have been upgraded again).
I don't keep records of when someone leaves a list or joins up. Maybe I
should, but it's really useless data to me. What's more important is
getting
the name of House of Fusion out there as a community resource and providing
for the ColdFusion community.

  I've often wondered how many people actually subscribe to each list
(talk
  and comm).  Seems like the same handful post all the time, just
wondering
  how many lurkers are out there.  :)







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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Michael T. Tangorre
 From: Rick Faircloth [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 They probably will, when they're sure they won't be squashed 
 like a roach if they make an appearance and dare utter any 
 words which might draw the ire of some on this list...

I think everyone is overreacting a little here... the list gets worked up
now and then but everything calms down in a couple hours or a couple days...
no big deal.

One other point.. A lot of potential employers have people on this list so
the more BS you partake in might come back to bite you in the ass if you
find yourself looking for CF work and run into someone you didn't know on
here... but knows you! :-)

Mike




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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Andy Ousterhout
Well, we are both Lurkers as well as cowards.  Many of you have so much
experience with this language that I generally don't answer posts because
someone else out their beats me to the punch with a much better answer.  So
fear of posting an incorrect answer may run high.  It does with me :-))

Andy

-Original Message-
From: Ray Champagne


Cool, thanks for the info.

I am surprised at the community numbers.  I thought it would be less than 
that.  Seems like we have about 50 ppl who post on a normal 
basis.  Lurkers, come out of the woodwork!  :)

Ray


At 01:29 PM 3/11/2005, you wrote:
2669 on CF-Talk
565 on CF-Community
We also have a LOT of people on the RSS feeds and using the archives (which
have been upgraded again).
I don't keep records of when someone leaves a list or joins up. Maybe I
should, but it's really useless data to me. What's more important is getting
the name of House of Fusion out there as a community resource and providing
for the ColdFusion community.

  I've often wondered how many people actually subscribe to each list (talk
  and comm).  Seems like the same handful post all the time, just wondering
  how many lurkers are out there.  :)



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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread dave
i try to be good lol


From: Rick Faircloth [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 1:48 PM
To: CF-Talk cf-talk@houseoffusion.com
Subject: RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz 

 Lurkers, come out of the woodwork! :)

They probably will, when they're sure they won't
be squashed like a roach if they make an appearance
and dare utter any words which might draw the ire of
some on this list...

Rick

-Original Message-
From: Ray Champagne [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 1:37 PM
To: CF-Talk
Subject: Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

Cool, thanks for the info.

I am surprised at the community numbers. I thought it would be less than
that. Seems like we have about 50 ppl who post on a normal
basis. Lurkers, come out of the woodwork! :)

Ray

At 01:29 PM 3/11/2005, you wrote:
2669 on CF-Talk
565 on CF-Community
We also have a LOT of people on the RSS feeds and using the archives (which
have been upgraded again).
I don't keep records of when someone leaves a list or joins up. Maybe I
should, but it's really useless data to me. What's more important is
getting
the name of House of Fusion out there as a community resource and providing
for the ColdFusion community.

  I've often wondered how many people actually subscribe to each list
(talk
  and comm). Seems like the same handful post all the time, just
wondering
  how many lurkers are out there. :)







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Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread dave
I think the problem is that you tried out a few diff newletter systems so ppl 
might have been caught between or trying to unsubscribe to one that isn't there 
anymore.


From: Scott Stroz [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 12:43 PM
To: CF-Talk cf-talk@houseoffusion.com
Subject: Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz 

Rick,

I was joking. The guy from smartsurfonline said it was easy to
unsubscribe to their mailing list. I was taking an unprovoked jab at
him.

I love CF-Talk, the humor, the drama, the mud slinging...oh, yea,
there sometimes some good tech related stuff here too ;-)

Scott

On Fri, 11 Mar 2005 12:25:42 -0500, Rick Faircloth
 wrote:
  From Scott Stroz:
 
  UNSUBSCRIBE
 
 Scott,
 
 I know you're probably unsubscribing because of the incivility
 shown on this list in the last couple of days...and it has been bad.
 
 However, there is a lot to be gained from monitoring and participating
 in this list. I would never have been able to get a business based on
 web design that utilizing Cold Fusion without it. It's not always this
 bad...usually, it's quite civil.
 
 Now, to speak the CF-Talk family...forgive my forwardness in speaking
 to the group like this, but this little family has begun to act like too
 many
 real families. Unable to carry on conversation without argument, sometimes
 profanity, undue criticism, etc. Many real families fall apart when it gets
 like this...the same is true for online families and I think, if my
 instinct is correct,
 that Scott Stroz may be the first victim of this CF family's misbehavior.
 
 We need to temper criticism of other people and, especially, their websites
 and products. Criticism can be constructive and given in that light is
 usually welcome
 by the producers. But the kind of criticism, even lately of free products,
 has been
 quite over-the-top. I think some of us need a vacation, or at least more
 sleep and
 less caffeine!
 
 In groups like this one, it's easy for the inner circle to become very
 familiar with
 each other and, like in all personal relationships, get a little too relaxed
 with what
 we say. People who sign up for the form, because of their interest in Cold
 Fusion
 and need for help, will quickly abandon this list, not get the help they
 need, and
 perhaps abandon Cold Fusion, itself. This doesn't help any of us in the
 long run
 and especially the person in need in the short run.
 
 Notice, I'm not using capital letters, so I'm not yelling at anyone...this
 is just a call
 of encouragement for all of us to be careful in our conduct and etiquette on
 this list.
 There are constantly new people checking out what's going on that we never
 know
 are watching. We need to show them this is a place of help and comradery,
 not of
 heated criticism, petty sniping, and destructive argument. People show up
 here
 in need of help...not just with the code, but with the difficulty of dealing
 with the
 situations they're in which drove here in the first place.
 
 Personally, I'm tough enough to stick out the troubled moments we have here
 to
 get the benefits from this list. But for the sake of those who won't stick
 around long
 enough to see what a great resource this list is, I encourage everyone to
 play nice...
 
 Thanks for indulging my concerns...
 
 Rick
 
 Rick Faircloth,
 White Stone Media
 
 -Original Message-
 From: Scott Stroz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 11:37 AM
 To: CF-Talk
 Subject: Re: Anyone used these tools?
 
 UNSUBSCRIBE
 
 



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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread dave
It does get heated but thats also where a lot of the good info comes out that 
otherwise wouldnt.

 As far as employers and such, well I can see both sides of the argument but I 
would want someone on my team that is a free thinker and not afraid to speak 
his/her mind, it doesn't mean I have to always agree with them. After all most 
businesses that do well are ones with at least a lil bit of friction in them, 
it also pulls out more ideas, solutions.

 If you think the friction here is bad, try working in an ER with ppl who 
haven't slept in 3 days, this is nothing.


From: Michael T. Tangorre [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 1:54 PM
To: CF-Talk cf-talk@houseoffusion.com
Subject: RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz 

 From: Rick Faircloth [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 They probably will, when they're sure they won't be squashed 
 like a roach if they make an appearance and dare utter any 
 words which might draw the ire of some on this list...

I think everyone is overreacting a little here... the list gets worked up
now and then but everything calms down in a couple hours or a couple days...
no big deal.

One other point.. A lot of potential employers have people on this list so
the more BS you partake in might come back to bite you in the ass if you
find yourself looking for CF work and run into someone you didn't know on
here... but knows you! :-)

Mike



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Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Tony Weeg
i think that if someone doesnt hire me, becuase im being me, then i
wouldnt want that job in the first place if i cant be me, then who
am i?

tw


On Fri, 11 Mar 2005 14:42:16 -0500, dave [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 I think the problem is that you tried out a few diff newletter systems so ppl 
 might have been caught between or trying to unsubscribe to one that isn't 
 there anymore.
 
 
 From: Scott Stroz [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 12:43 PM
 To: CF-Talk cf-talk@houseoffusion.com
 Subject: Re: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz
 
 Rick,
 
 I was joking. The guy from smartsurfonline said it was easy to
 unsubscribe to their mailing list. I was taking an unprovoked jab at
 him.
 
 I love CF-Talk, the humor, the drama, the mud slinging...oh, yea,
 there sometimes some good tech related stuff here too ;-)
 
 Scott
 
 On Fri, 11 Mar 2005 12:25:42 -0500, Rick Faircloth
 wrote:
   From Scott Stroz:
 
   UNSUBSCRIBE
 
  Scott,
 
  I know you're probably unsubscribing because of the incivility
  shown on this list in the last couple of days...and it has been bad.
 
  However, there is a lot to be gained from monitoring and participating
  in this list. I would never have been able to get a business based on
  web design that utilizing Cold Fusion without it. It's not always this
  bad...usually, it's quite civil.
 
  Now, to speak the CF-Talk family...forgive my forwardness in speaking
  to the group like this, but this little family has begun to act like too
  many
  real families. Unable to carry on conversation without argument, sometimes
  profanity, undue criticism, etc. Many real families fall apart when it gets
  like this...the same is true for online families and I think, if my
  instinct is correct,
  that Scott Stroz may be the first victim of this CF family's misbehavior.
 
  We need to temper criticism of other people and, especially, their websites
  and products. Criticism can be constructive and given in that light is
  usually welcome
  by the producers. But the kind of criticism, even lately of free products,
  has been
  quite over-the-top. I think some of us need a vacation, or at least more
  sleep and
  less caffeine!
 
  In groups like this one, it's easy for the inner circle to become very
  familiar with
  each other and, like in all personal relationships, get a little too relaxed
  with what
  we say. People who sign up for the form, because of their interest in Cold
  Fusion
  and need for help, will quickly abandon this list, not get the help they
  need, and
  perhaps abandon Cold Fusion, itself. This doesn't help any of us in the
  long run
  and especially the person in need in the short run.
 
  Notice, I'm not using capital letters, so I'm not yelling at anyone...this
  is just a call
  of encouragement for all of us to be careful in our conduct and etiquette on
  this list.
  There are constantly new people checking out what's going on that we never
  know
  are watching. We need to show them this is a place of help and comradery,
  not of
  heated criticism, petty sniping, and destructive argument. People show up
  here
  in need of help...not just with the code, but with the difficulty of dealing
  with the
  situations they're in which drove here in the first place.
 
  Personally, I'm tough enough to stick out the troubled moments we have here
  to
  get the benefits from this list. But for the sake of those who won't stick
  around long
  enough to see what a great resource this list is, I encourage everyone to
  play nice...
 
  Thanks for indulging my concerns...
 
  Rick
 
  Rick Faircloth,
  White Stone Media
 
  -Original Message-
  From: Scott Stroz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Sent: Friday, March 11, 2005 11:37 AM
  To: CF-Talk
  Subject: Re: Anyone used these tools?
 
  UNSUBSCRIBE
 
 
 
 

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RE: Unsubscribe by Scott Stroz

2005-03-11 Thread Steve Brownlee
 if i cant be me, then who am i?

Vanilla Ice.

Oh wait, was that supposed to be a riddle?


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